well I really like this boy
and sometime in april he is probably going to
move back to milwaukee
and i live in atlanta should i try and start
a relationship with him or just remain friends?
2006-09-19 02:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Remain friends.. You'll get heartbroken in the end..and why torture yourself...Maybe one day he'll come back
2006-09-19 02:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It ain't worth the time, energy e.t.c. Are you in love with the boy? I once had a long distance relationship and in the end, we remained friends. People say it makes the heart grow fonder but that's a load of crap cuz you can never know what he'll do over there and you will be tempted.
Girl, look elsewhere. Its hard but you could do it. And spend less time with him and hang out with other people. So, when he leaves, you won't have to miss him that much.
2006-09-19 02:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Banana Pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just want a fling, go after him - but know that it probably won't last long after he moves.
If you really like him, consider striking up a friendship and trying hard to keep in touch with him - but realize that it might also not work out if he never moves back to where you are.
The best bet would be to choose someone else who plans on staying put.
2006-09-19 02:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met a guy the day before he was meant to go bk to germany and it has been 4 months now and its goin well. i would say try it out and see if u can afford to ring him n keep contact and also if u can manage without him. the heart grows fonder but the best thing is to tlk to him about it and see how often u could see each other. that is the key to look forward to your next meeting and keep busy in that time. i fell in love with mine and im so happy but v.miserable wen he goes! if u r strong u will be fine!
2006-09-19 03:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my own littel way.I would like u to answer this yourself------1---what do u want from this boy?---2----do u trust him?(though many would say where is trust these days).3---can u cope with such a distance?---3----Above all I would advice u just keep him as a friend for now and dont stop communicating with him once he moved from there u would know from him if he really ewants or like you for such relationship.
+Have u tried to ask him what he wants from you?Or maybe its just your won feelings????'Good luck my dear!
2006-09-19 02:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by fellow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably turn out to be a waste of time. it's hard to continue a relationship long distance. Just do what your heart says to do.
2006-09-19 02:31:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain friends. I made that mistake once and I miss him to this day.
2006-09-19 02:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by womanofthefire80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you do that just have sex with him and move on
2006-09-19 02:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOOO!!!!!!
2006-09-19 02:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Amy >'.'< 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋