heres the deal, i have had this best friend for 2 years now and she is very very pretty and has the best body...she always talks about her sexual experiences and i have had none so i get frustrated at times but i dont know when she is messing me about on generally flirting with me...
she now does sports massage at college and told me that they have to practise on each other and she is only aloud to wear pants when being massaged and the idea really turned me on but im trying to think of ways to get her to give me a massage or me give her a massage so i can see her in underwear then make a move or vice versa...
she has said a few words about practising on someone but it wasnt bout me..is it wrong to try and get her into a massage situation then make a move on her? what else could i do?
2006-09-19 02:22:12 · 5 answers · asked by mathews1243 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her how you feel. she might feel the same way you do.
2006-09-19 02:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by always 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where she is a good friend, it is common to confuse your caring feeling of friendship with your potential feelings of love, especially where you are unattached. Are you friends with her because you are attaracted to her, or do you value her friendship? If its the former, I don't think that may be fair to her as she may come to you for advice and being that you are interested in her, your answer will be biased. If you only like her, then state your feelings and be willing to accept however the cards may fall. If you value the friendship, you have to learn to supress your interest as it will affect the friendship negatively in the form of a bias that you alone could make her happiest. You can do this be realizing that expressing a romantic interest will likely destroy the friendship (seen it happen A LOT) as women tend to not be interested in friends as often as men are and more so realizing the friendship means more to you than any relationship could because you can never be as close of friends again should the relationship end.
2006-09-19 02:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously since you have been best friends with her for two years, you should know what she likes and dislikes. If you want to give her a massage then be straight-forward and honest with her. Sometimes you just have to let it be known what you want.
2006-09-19 02:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think by telling you all that stuff she is trying to see if you may be interested in her. Tell her how you feel.
2006-09-19 02:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a bit sleazy, but if she's consentual....
2006-09-19 18:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Crossroads Keeper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋