My best friend is always by my side. I really like him a lot, but now he's always touching me and hugging me. He's started calling me "honey" . I feel so calm when he's near me and I don't want to lose him. But I'm definetly NOT in love with him....I think !!! Help!!!
2006-09-19 01:58:58 · 16 answers · asked by anu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You need to put everything else aside and really think about this.
Seems that he is falling for you and if you are questioning you feelings for him, ;more than likely you R falling for him!
The 2of u need to have a sit down and find out exactly where this is headed.
2006-09-19 02:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by koleebear 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whilst he's around, express interest in other blokes and ask his advice on dating someone new. This gives him the impression that you're not looking to be with him. If you find someone new - or even try to get a date, ask your friend not to stay so close as it may frighten off other blokes. He's a guy he'll understand what than means.
2006-09-19 02:26:59 · answer #2 · answered by tspoonteddy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't continue this way things are going now - its not fair to your friend or to you for that matter. He thinks of you as more than a friend and you have banished him to the "friend zone". You have got to set him straight even if it means you will break his heart and lose him....and you probably WILL lose him (as a friend) - sorry. Hope it turns out OK.
2006-09-19 03:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blokes are simple creatures (trust me I am one)... If you want to tell him something. Say it.
If you try to hint at it or talk around the point he won't cotton on and you'll be left feeling tense and miserable.
Just tell him that you're only frineds and that he it a bit too tactile for you at present.
2006-09-19 02:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by Chris F 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is your real friend, tell him that in a gentle way.
Maybe he thinks the feeling is mutual.
If you tell him that gently, probably you won´t loose the friendship.
2006-09-19 02:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Isadora 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a fast friend Know every think he/she are think about us. if u have some thing in yr mind u speek clear to her friend. do not wait.
2006-09-19 02:05:11 · answer #6 · answered by rohit s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight. He won't be your bestfriend for nothing. That means you can trust him to understand.
2006-09-19 03:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by MARY ROSE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey my name is salmiah i think you must not get too close with him just tell him that you like him as a friend not things in th wrong way ok thanks
2006-09-19 03:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by Trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how u feel gently but firmly. keep a distance.
2006-09-19 02:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he's ur best fren he will understand wen u tell him ur uncomfortable... so be gentle & drop the news..
2006-09-19 02:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by Cheeky gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋