2006-09-19 01:44:51 · 36 answers · asked by nananas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
definately, ask her how your p*ssy tastes on his lips
2006-09-19 01:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by L.J. 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
No, you should not call and talk to the woman your husband is having an affair with. First of all, it's your husband who strayed from your marriage. The talk should be with him. The woman he is seeing might not have any idea about you. If she does know about you, then that is on her. You need to confront your husband. Also, once a man or woman cheats, they will again. This has been proven time and time again.
2006-09-19 02:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire a private investigator and get the evidence you need in court. Get a hold of the emotions and do the right things first. Don't tell your friends family or husband or other woman what you are doing. Get an attorney. Pay the Private investigator with cash and get a receipt. Have the P.I. provide your attorney with copies of the evidence. Put your evidence in a safe deposit box. File for divorce and move on. Get a support group for divorced women but watch out for the preditors that show up looking for vulnerable women. Work through the divorce and get your life back and on track and do something to improve the world.
2006-09-19 01:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by lydia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should talk to your husband. Find out why he is having an affair, how long it's been going on and if he wants out of the marriage. Then you must decide if you can work through this or if this betrayal is more than you can forgive him for. Once you do this, then you really should get counseling for yourself. It's going to do you no good to confront the other woman.
2006-09-19 01:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you will gain something from speaking with her then make the call. If you can speak with her civially you might both learn a great deal about "your" husband. Although it is tempting to label her "the problem" just remember that she is not the one who took wedding vows with you. Don't attack her because that will get you no where. Remember the saying, "Keep your friends close and keep your enemies closer." You don't know that anything coming out of your husband's mouth is true. He has everything to lose in this situation. She, on the other hand, has nothing to lose so if you you are going to speak with her do it in such as way so as to gain valuable knowledge about the man you are married to. She didn't betray you,your husband did so if you feel the need to attack anyone look to him. He is your problem. She is a symptom of something much bigger that you need to know about. Good luck to you!
2006-09-19 02:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Cashmere621 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will only make you look the fool. first thing you need too do is stay calm and sit down and have a good talk with your husband. I know this may sound crazy, but it will help in the long run. Try to find out why he is doing this. It is not always the other ladies fault...do not scream and holler, stay focus at all times. Make yourself come out of this the better person
2006-09-19 01:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by ticonderoga1186 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to weight out what it is you have to gain and lose from calling this woman. Does she know she is having an affair with a married man. Do you and your husband have kids? You may want to speak to your husband first and find out why he is seeing this other person because this woman may not know that he is married. Your beef should be with him first. He is the one that vowed to be loyal to you not this woman.
2006-09-19 02:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by espo023 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should call her ask her ? how long etc. She mat not even know about you. But if you dont call you will always wonder call but be prepared and VERY STRONG never let her know your upset or hurt some people fed off that and dont get angry on the phone just ask your ? that will help with closure then talk to your husband about it and then you need to take time to figure out if its worht working out with him or getting out. If its been going on for a while then your better off leaving because he will prob. just hurt you again and your worth more than that
2006-09-19 04:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should talk to him first and ask him how long has this been going on. If he denys it then I would consider in taking steps further. Like doing your own investigating. Check his wallet, creditcard payments, follow him if you have too, check the phone at home and cell phone. you can always *69 most men forget to clear the number before lol. I hope that helps but i know what your going through. Never confront her unless it comes to the point where she is calling your house then its war. but handle it in a decent matter.
2006-09-19 02:02:54 · answer #9 · answered by shyhonney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would call her if I didn't know her, and set her straight about the fact that he is married. You really need to talk to him though. If it is someone that you know - I would just have his stuff on the frontlawn. Actually I would cut the crotch out of all of his pants and destroy all of his shirts. Do it while he's in the shower so he has nothing to wear!
By the way look at revenge.com (I'm bitter on behalf of my bff)
2006-09-19 02:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends.....does she know he is married? If you are positive she knows then dont bother talking to her.If you aren't quite sure she knows......yes,burst his bubble. You should have enough respect for yourself to not put up with his cheating. You are better than that! Let him know you are serious and either leave him or make him leave until you have decided whether or not he is worth giving another chance to.
If he knows that you know and is still having the afair then then he is the lowest of scum and you should leave him and never look back!Be strong! You deserve better! You deserve respect!
2006-09-19 01:51:45 · answer #11 · answered by Missouri Chick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋