can anyone who has been married for more than 5 years say that they are trully happy (not just satisfied)with their choice, and believe that they are in it till death?
2006-09-19 01:16:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have only been married for 15 months (but I have been married before) and I can truly say that this is the happiest I have ever been in my life. It has taken 40 years to find the true love of my life, my soulmate and we both know that we shall be together 'until death do us part'. Incidentally, we are both like teenagers, always messing about, always laughing and loving being in each other's company!
2006-09-19 01:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that a lot of it depends on the time when you marry. I am 27 now and if I had married 5 years ago I don't think it would have lasted as I have changed so much and have found out so much about myself. Now, however I think I know myself and what I want and need so much better that till death do us part would be very much a possibility.
My parents have been together for 30 years but they married when they were in their 30's after most of their friends who had married 10 years before had divorced!!
2006-09-19 09:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by chbr2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not married five yrs, but 4 yrs and i'm very happy with the choice i hve made and with my marriage so far. Yes we have had som ups n down but have gotten past all. It's normal.
And yes i want to stay with my husband until death do us part. Why? These r the last days.... and i dont want to change partner and get some transmitted infection or desease.
2006-09-19 08:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by Miss-Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for seven years and I am very happy. I know that I married my soul mate and we are committed to each other for life. Everyday has not been easy and we have gone through somethings in our marriage. Marriage is hard work and it takes committment on both sides. We have to wake up every morning and decide to commit to our marriage again and work on become closer and stronger. Some days are better than others but we are in it for the long haul.
2006-09-19 09:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am. I love my wife, more so now than ever and I can truly imagine spending the rest of my life with her, till death do us part. Thank goodness she feels the same way about me too! My parents have been married happily for the last 28 years and they're in it for life and still act like teenagers in love. I'm lucky to have found that with my wife too.
2006-09-19 08:19:37 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO perfectly no marriage is like sugar cane.Some part of it is sweet and at time if you reach where there is a knot it taste salty, likewise marriage you will not be happy all the time. Your choice will also be perfect for you but, not till death. They are not Angels.
2006-09-19 08:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
been married for 3 decades. I have my regrets, as i am certain most people do. But on the other hand, if the positives outweigh the negatives, it would then make it worthwhile.
Remember, every situation is different. Some men/women stay for the financial security, emotional security, physical closeness, comfort level and support.
2006-09-19 08:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have been married for more than five years and we love each very much. We do things to keep that love alive. Say I love you at least once a day , Write love notes to each other, go on a trip just you too, etc. You can't let that love just dwindle down.
2006-09-19 08:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by Lori K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have not got married yet but imagine there is more people out there who are just satisfied and have probably accepted that it is for the rest of thier life - whether they are happy or not!
Depressing!
2006-09-19 08:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by Livewireguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just celebrated 14 years together. I was going to say 'blissful years together' but to say that would be to overlook all the sh** we have been through together, both of our own making and from outside our relationship. I would say that, from my point of view, I honestly don't ever want to be without him and I am more sure than I have ever been before, that he is my one true love and my soul-mate. We were born to be together and we will be till the end of time.
2006-09-19 10:13:30 · answer #10 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋