im 28 years oid been married for 3years and my husband is very upset at me it seem to me all he wants to do is have sex and i just cant stand it when i do give in the whole time im wishing he would stop get it over with
2006-09-19 01:08:23 · 8 answers · asked by michelle 2 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Of course it's normal not to want sex everyday. I am a married woman and I don't want sex everyday. I share your fustration because since last week my husband always wants to have sex but I am not in the mood to hav sex. Please bear with him. Soon he will lose his libido when he has had enough.
2006-09-19 01:20:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
He is going to close up stop talking to you than sleep with some one
you are destroying your marriage!
You not wanting to have sex with him is like him; talking to you with disrespect everyday always!
You not having sex with him is like him not answering you when you speak to him nor him not starting conversations
Is your marriage worth it?
Stop being selfish and give it up!
And like giving it up!
You don't want him to be half hearted
So you shouldn't be half hearted
when you have sex withyour husband!!!!!
sex is emotional for men
he is suffering!
You vowed till death do you part
he's not dead yet!
so why did you part?
You may not like it
to hear this dear
but your killing him!
Some one is going to accidently give him the Joy you forsake him
Is that what you want?
is it?
Please make a 180 degree turn now be for it is to late honey!
2006-09-19 09:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's investigate more. you not wanting sex is it due to the fact that your husband hasn't had any foreplay or romance with you and being impatient all of the time. you can't just dive in and have sex because the male/female biological mechanism 's different. In the same sense i would ask the same question ,if my girlfriend doesn't take a bath for 3 days, put on makeups like a clown, and play hardcore metal music in the background and expect me to want to engage in any intimate activities w/ her. are you normal: DOES OTHER MEN AROUSE YOU ?
2006-09-19 08:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tosh 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You probably subconsciously or consciously do not want to be with him anymore. Either get over it or leave. There is no reason to torture him. You made a promise to love him no matter what. You should want to be with him, especially around the time when most women have their sexual peak.
2006-09-19 08:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While it may not be "normal" for a woman of your age, it does happen more than you think. What you failed to mention is, have you had a baby? Are you on medication? Or have you just lost your drive toward your husband? Only you can work out these issues.
Good Luck.
2006-09-19 08:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wish i knew i am going through the same thing. I just lay there and can't wait for it to be over. I really don't think its a normal thing for people our age. I was thinking about talking to my doctor but it is kind of embarrassing. I wish you the best and good luck.
2006-09-19 09:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by hot mommy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no get help sex should be like a meal balanced and three times a day!!!!
2006-09-19 08:10:36 · answer #7 · answered by mandyhoward01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my ex- I guess you are heading to be an ex also.
You need counselling.
2006-09-19 08:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋