2006-09-19 00:54:48 · 27 answers · asked by OnionSkin 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Financial stability.
2006-09-19 00:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Financial stability
Stable home life for the children to grow up in
Setting down the morals and values for the children
Having my partner completely involved with every decision regarding the child/children.
Working together and supporting eachother through everything.
When it comes to starting a family there is never just one thing.
Also a very good Medical Aid Fund with maternal planning as well as good benefits ones the child comes.
Babies get sick very quickly.
I think the most important thing is being happy and staying happy.
If your thinking about this, do yourself a favour, read more books, get a good doctor you and your partner feel comfortable with and trust. Start talking to the doctor. Shop around for a good kid doctor get references set up a meeting check the funds. Get a good gyenacologists.
Things like that. There r so many things to prepare for I dont even know where to tell you to start.
2006-09-19 08:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My top priority would be a secure relationship with my partner. I would want to know I had that support and security and that our baby would have that too.
Financial security is obviously important but not as important as a secure loving home.
2006-09-19 07:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The money to be able to provide for not only the child but to aid the family if both partners have been working ... you will be without an income for awhile after giving birth ..so best to plan for it ...
2006-09-19 08:01:38 · answer #4 · answered by MrsDave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you can afford it. And that both of you are ready for it. Because it is a lot of work 24/7 without a break
2006-09-19 07:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by Douglas F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure the spouse is what you are looking for! This is the most important decision you would give in your life.
2006-09-19 07:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by O-zone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Housing,Medical Care, College Fund,Time (Will I be caring for my child or a daycare center)
2006-09-19 08:18:16 · answer #7 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Responsibilities: being responsible....
1. to love your partner(growing love)
2. to provide each one's needs (not necessarily finances)
3. financial provision & management
"he who has nothing is poor, but he, who has nothing but money is even poorer"
4. quality time
2006-09-19 08:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by littzzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That my marriage is happy and we are financially stable to provide for children.
2006-09-19 08:33:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a house
2006-09-19 07:59:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋