my boyfriend can't hold out with his errection how can i help him?????

Answer 1

even after the second or third time in the same night? he should be able to last longer the second or third time, be patient

Answer 2

He can't keep an erection? If that's the case, you need to make him feel more comfortable. DO NOT ask him "what's wrong?", unless you are determined to keep him limp. Just be very open and make sure he is too. Sit around naked, get to know each other. Do not pressure him in any way. And don't make a big deal out of it.

If you mean that he is ejaculating too early, then you can look into a number of desensitizing products, or simply start over after his first orgasm.

If he cannot get an errection, you may want to have him see a urologist.

Answer 3

That sort of d**kcontrol won't occur until about age 25. Up until then the erections will happen when the wind blows and leave just as suddenly although the enthusiasm is always there. He will learn as time goes by. Tell him to think of other things whenever he is about to lose it. A baseball game , etc....
Become sensitive to his movements and slow down the pace if it is too soon. Eventually he will learn how to continue after spilling by switching positions etc...Just as a woman can orgasm multiple times a guy can *** more than once in any given session. It takes time and experience that's all.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Be patient with him, you obviously excite him, so that's a good thing. Try giving him oral first... then the second time he should last much longer. Let him concentrate on you some of the time, too, don't make it all about him. Also, maybe he's used to sex only lasting a few minutes, so reassure him that you have lots of time together.

Answer 6

Old trick ( Suprised no one else told her this ) tell him to bash one out before you come round that way he sould last a lot longer. and make sure he wears a condom and take it slower than normal.

P.s. I have to be attracted to the women in the first place otherwise he wont come out to play. I fell out of love with an EX g/f and she still wanted sex but the little man said no and refused to play on every occasion with her. I just didnt find her attractive anymore.

It' true it does have a mind of it's own!!!!!!

Answer 7

If you mean he can't *maintain* an erection sometimes, he may have a blockage and should see a doctor to have that corrected.

If you mean he ejaculates prematurely and he's relatively young, he'll get better at it as he gets older.

Answer 8

He has premature ejaculation. Either he has emotional problems or physical problems related to this. Emotional problems are complicated and hard to resolve. If his parents told him sex was dirty or he was molested then he has issues to work through. Therapy will help find the answers. If it is physical health related he needs to find the cause and cure via a doctor or health personel. Nutrition and certain foods can help. If he doesn't want to get help for this problem you need to reevaluate your relationship.

Answer 9

Chat to him about it, I'm sure I read somewhere that at times it's more psychological not physical.

Answer 10

Sometimes you can surprise him by dressing up for him.
Candles and soft romance music, then massage each other with oils.

Or you can tease each other with food play, blind fold him then put different kinds of food in his mouth and all over hes body. I find that Ice cubes works wonders for men.

Play with each other first!

Answer 11

Have a good talk with him,practically find out ways to keep the excitment b4 sex high and keep it up.If problem persist, if u love him well enough u guys see a doctor so as to eliminate any chances of malfunction of his sex organs.