I like wearing ladies, aprons, overalls, maid, nurse uniforms, lingerie and pink satin dresses. I am a fairly masculine guy, (at least i like to think I am!) Check my 360 page for pics. I only dress at home and my g/f knows I do. She allows me to dress in bed when she doesn't feel like full 6x! She alows me to play while wearing something female. I do not want to be female, I am fairly hairy and would never dream of shaving any part of my body. (my g/f loves the hair at the base of my back it sends her to sleep when she strokes it!) I have not interest in men and would never have gay sex. I get really turn on imagining I am a female in a beauty salon dressed in kinky uniform and hypnotised under a special drier to be a lesbian. Maybe I am a girl in a guys body, but if I was a girl I know I would be abi or a lesbian. I think it is more acceptable for a girl to be bi or lesbian than a guy. So what do you think? Nasty comments will be reported.
2006-09-19 00:32:06 · 39 answers · asked by DJ Spider 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2006-09-19 01:56:45 · update #1
u are cute, no u are not gay, you are just one of those kinky straight guys with a bit of naughty fantasies...
unless you start fantasising about huge co..s, than you shouldnt be worried,,,
trust me i know
2006-09-19 00:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear Mr Spider
Your question is ambiguous, in that you write "I do not want to be female ... and would never dream of shaving ..." But later on you wrote "I get really turned on imagining I am a female ...."
So in the first instance I think you have some internal conflict regarding these issues.
Prima facie you are clearly what is termed a fetishistic transvestite. That is, you are sexually aroused by wearing women's clothes. There is nothing wrong with this and indeed there are support groups for people like you.
Many men live perfectly happy and useful lives and indulge their transvestism in private and with the help of support groups.
I keep coming back to support groups because, the transvestite can easily feel isolated, a support group will help you feel less isolated and also help your partner come into contact with other partners of transvestite men.
From what you say I do not think you are either gay or bi. Sexuality is not the same thing as gender identity, and fetishistic transvestism lies at the very mild end of gender identity disorder.
It is so common that you might regard it as being perfectly normal.
Go ahead and indulge yourself but find a support group as well.
2006-09-19 04:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Augusta B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your a fairly typical crossdresser.
You enjoy dressing up, but only in the privacy of home, you don't go out in public dressed in drag nor do you have any interest in sex with men. You have what seems to be a fulfilling heterosexual relationship, as well as a full imagination.
Nope, you're neither gay or bi. But you're definitely confused or you wouldn't have asked.
2006-09-19 09:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by DEATH 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is "normal" crossdressing. You don't have to be gay to be a guy who dresses like a gal. Since that does happen it is understandable when someone assumes that though.
Don't worry about the 'girl in a guys body' because you also said you "didn't want to be female." You've a kinky fetish and that's all.
2006-09-19 04:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you are striaght
Men wearing dresses and getting off in them is nothing new some men do it a lot
To me it soulds like you are transgender or transvestite some one that crossdressers for the fun of it
It is normal for people to do this in there bedroom or out and about
Here it a site of people that range from crossdresses what you may be to peolpe that are transsexual
They have a lot of information that can help it is a pay site but there is a free basic membership where you can find out all that you may need to
www.trannweb.com
Just know your not alone
2006-09-19 01:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by Zara3 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dressing in woman's clothes does not make you gay, or confused. It sounds as though you know you are not gay. If you girlfriend is OK with it do not worry about it, but If you are slightly worried call a therapist maybe there is an underlying reason. Of course you can always say you are a lesbian trapped in a man's body. (jk).
2006-09-19 00:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by passionparties_by_suzanne 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The question is 'Am I gay/bi or confused' which I understand to be sexuality terms. You spoke about how you dress etc and then say you have a girlfriend and you say "I have not interest in men and would never have gay sex". How can you question your sexuality like this. Sounds like you are straight to me. You just like to wear womens clothes then.
2006-09-19 00:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by CJunk 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It’s called a transvestite; it’s when straight men love dressing in women’s clothing. Doesn’t sound like your bisexual because you say you would never have gay sex. My neighbor was a cross dresser and his girlfriend had no problem with it, I asked him once why he did it and he said that he loved women so much that the fantasy of actually being one turned him on so much. I suppose its each to their own. If you enjoy and your girlfriend has no problem with it enjoy…
2006-09-19 01:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by megan a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you like to look pretty doesn't mean that you are sexually attracted to other men. It means you like the way dressing up makes you feel. You're probably straight with a cross-dressing fetish. How would you feel if a guy hit on you when you where dressed up?
2006-09-19 00:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
dude, do purely despite. you're in all probability turning bi simply by fact of your gay pal, yet you for sure wern't thoroughly directly to start with. in case you have been thoroughly rapidly, you will have not any temptaions to decide for a guy. you will in all probability finally end up being bi in case you reside pals with your gay pal. being gay isn't undesirable, it purely generally would not run properly with mum and dad. if i've got been you, i could fullfil what i prefer with a guy, yet date purely females.
2016-10-17 06:31:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like (really not trying to be rude here) you're a closet transvestite. My deceased ex-husband was similar, although he did take it to a few other levels than it sounds like don't you want to. Consider yourself very lucky that your girlfriend is as accepting as she seems to be, I don't think a lot of women are. If this is upsetting your or bothering you, as it seems to be, perhaps you should talk to a therapist that specializes is sex therapy. Maybe then, you could figure out what's going on inside of yourself. I wish you luck, for what it's worth.
2006-09-19 00:40:25 · answer #11 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋