She is very fragile, sensitive and will be very upset ! Not crazy but, hurt. How do I approach the idea ~ that she needs to move on elsewhere? I need to be strong and firm without her taking an emotional dive ! How would you handle this ?
2006-09-19 00:31:21 · 10 answers · asked by Jo Jo Gunn 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Can i ask? have u guys been together long? are there kids involved? Is this your place or hers?
as i mature woman i could answer honestly as long as you give me more information
2006-09-19 04:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way in hell doing it without her getting emotional. Telling someone to move outs not easy, Best u can do is be honest with her, tell her you dont feel its fair keeping her on a line when u dont feel the same any more, its just not working, she needs to move out. Answer all her questions with compassion but as u said be firm.
You r going to hurt her but rather do it sooner than later.
2006-09-19 07:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by chanD 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...I'd be really care full when playing with the emotions of someone elses heart..if she's VERY sensitive...you need to use a softer approach...give her space....and let her accept small amounts of what you tell her..don't overload her with EVERYTHING...start by saying ..I'm just not happy anymore..are you?...really? are you happy?! We need to maybe take a break and separate...You can hate me if you want ...cause I understand you will....".
As the wicked witch of the west said to Dorothy...these things must be done delicately...
2006-09-20 10:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to do this. And yes she would be upset. But the best thing is for you to be honest with her and tell her how you really feel. She might be upset and mad as hell but after the shock she would appreciate your honesty. Do it now. The longer you wait the harder it would be on both of yall.
2006-09-19 08:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by JUSTME 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to hear this but you just need to be honest with her and tell her that things just aren't working out as you planned and that there is someone more suitable for her and that it's not fair to you or her if you continue the relationship.
2006-09-19 07:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't play around with it, I'd tell her straight up this is not working out and we need to live apart. How she handles it is entirely up to her, I'm only responsible for my own actions.
2006-09-19 07:37:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her how much you love her i think either way it is going to hurt her ... cant you tell her your not ready for that serious of a relationship but your still very comitted to her.. i cant really tell wether yo want to break up from your q but my guess is you just want her to move out... you probably need to sweeten up before that blow though hun .... best of luck it is difficult ive done it before
2006-09-19 07:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by kazza 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can fix me up with her is that cool with you
2006-09-19 07:55:23 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her no choice
2006-09-19 07:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away
2006-09-19 08:05:09 · answer #10 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋