There are so many woman on this site, myself included, doing our utmost TTC but to no avail.........yet there are so many girls and i mean girls who get pregnant just like that. and then cry that they are pregnant.
its terribly infuriating and unfair. your thoughts please......
2006-09-19 00:25:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
You never get what you want. That is why i started believing in this saying where it goes something like - Never to watch a water pot boil, it never does. And anywayz, the harder you try the harder it gets to get what you want. The richer just get richer, its the poor who always suffer. Just live ure life passing everyday smiling and laughing, enjoy! Your time will come, and there are going to be others looking at you and wnating to be as patient as you were.
2006-09-19 01:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was saying the same thing a few months ago. Me and my husband lost our little girl due to an illness. She was 5 weeks old. I never got to bring her home or anything. We have been trying again for about 8 months and no luck. But every where you look you have some teenage girl pregnant who dose not want the kid. I wish i could get pregnant that easy.
I always wanted to know why the good people could not have kids? I had a little girl who was ill, i did not care what was wrong with her i just wanted to give her the best life i could. I wanted her to know that every one loved her. But then i look at a girl i went to school with she has 2 kids and does not care for them like she should. I heard her tell her girl one day to "wait i am smoking", all she wanted was a hug. It's not fair and it is hard to deal with somedays. I keep telling my self it is for a reason and it will happen soon.
Good luck to you.
If you want to talk e-mail me.
2006-09-19 07:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its frustrating but it gets easier every month. My husband and I have been TTC for just over 3 years. We are starting our first IVF this month. I believe in fate. And someday, somehow I will become a mother whether biological or adoptive.
I found that identifying the problem and knowing all of our options and chances was easiest with dealing with the everyday 'sightings' and questions. Good Luck!!
2006-09-19 12:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by KC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you 100%! It just doesn't seem fair, but then again..Life isn't fair. I have been TTC my second child for over 2 years and it is frustrating to me when I see young girls asking about abortions because they "oops" got pregnant! I do look at it from this point of view though...At least I was blessed with one child. I can imagine how much more difficult it would be for me if I had no children.
2006-09-19 07:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. My husband and I tried for three years to get pregnant with no luck. My trying ended May 05 when I had to have a full hysterectomy at the age of 31. I see girls every day with their babies and it is hard to deal with at times. But when I get frustrated I hand it all over to God; he knows what he is doing and I can't question him. I know that is hard to do, because I still have days when I just want to lay in bed and cry all day, but I can't. I still have a great husband, nephew, and nine little girl cousins who spend the night and love me to death. So I am blessed in my own way; and one day when the time is right we will hopefully adopt (if that is in the "plan")
I know it is hard to hear, because I heard over and over....but it is so true. Whatever happens is meant to be. Who knows, one of those babies being born to a "girl" could be yours in the future. Good Luck, and May God Bless you with a healthy baby!
2006-09-19 09:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by GreeneyedCowgirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree! My husband and I lost our first baby about 6 weeks ago. My husband has a 15 yr old cousin that is have a perfectly normal pregnancy. That just pisses me off. Why does life work that way. She has not business with a baby and won't know how to care for it, but we can take care of it and support and lost it.
2006-09-19 21:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by beta_slave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there. I feel for you, however you have to keep trying. I was diagnosed with Polysistic Ovarian Syndrome last year and was told that i may have to use IVF to concieve. I'm now pregnant with my first child.
Keep trying, it will happen. Find a helpful doctor and make sure that you are looking after yourself.
Good luck. xx
2006-09-19 08:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel exactly the same way!! These girls are so careless with sex, when they get pregnant they abort it. A couple of my girlfriends got pregnant TWICE and aborted the baby TWICE! It is their choice..but damn...don't be so careless. Some of us would love the gift of having a baby...and they're just throwing it away like its nothing.
2006-09-19 09:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by KyOOt T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i so agree wiv u. i have bin trying 4 over a year now and nuffin as happend so far. most girls gettin pregnant now r young around 16, 17 or 18. it tuk my mum 5 years 2 get pregnant wiv me do you think i cud have the same problem?
2006-09-19 08:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by katie m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It took me 4 years to get pregnant with my first. It took 2 months (well the 2nd month was "supposed" to be a break month) to get pregnant with my 2nd baby. Good Luck.
2006-09-19 08:28:10 · answer #10 · answered by jevic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋