ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and living in his parents house with him for 3 years...to cut a long story short,he does not always give me the attention i want,but i learnt to deal with that because i love him.anyway he has a friend called james and he is really weird desperate for a girlfriend,i introduced him to my mate natalie and he automatically fell in love with her,she knocked him back,so i started texting him takeing the piss outta him,i told my boyfriend i was winding him up,anyway i started sending james dirty text messages but i got a response...he never told me to get lost in the end i told him this ay right and i love robbie he was mad,he actually told my boyfriend becuase id knocked him back...now my boyfriend has told me its over,his best mate thinks im talking aload of bollocks but im not,ive told robbie everthing james did not ..like he never showed robbie the texts he sent me???now james does not come round anymore,robbies best mate harry has told him 2 f**k
2006-09-19 00:11:13 · 10 answers · asked by skinnyminniekitten 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
me off good and proper,robbie asked me 2 move out but i have not really got anywhere to go and his mate is pissed off im still here (his best m8)ive pleaded with robbie i have told him how ashamed i am and stuff i love him so much people....its like his mind is final any1 got any good advice so i can try and save what little is left..
2006-09-19 00:12:45 · update #1
I NEVER HAD SEX WITH HIS MATE I HAVE NEVER CHEATED ON HIM ROBBIE SAID IN HIS EYES AS GOOD AS....
2006-09-19 00:19:18 · update #2
HE SAID HE CANT TRUST ME???
2006-09-19 00:25:05 · update #3
Ok, let me get this straight.. your boy friend of 5 years, whom u depend on for shelter or atleast his parents.. u decide one day to just start sending little suggestive text messages to his best friends phone, so u and him start playing this sexual fantasy game through the phones, and when ur bf finds out about this he breaks up with u and wants u out.. and u cant seem to understand what u did wrong and think he's being unreasonable cause u didnt actually physically touch his best friend u were just sending his friend messages in a sexual manner of how u'd like to touch him?????? YEAH id kick you to the curb too, you cheated on him emotionally and if i was his parents id evict u pronto.. u played with fire and now u got burned.. hummm maybe next time you'll learn that when u love someone.. really love them u dont screw with their emotions by playing such stupid games..
And nope he cant trust u, u broke that trust when u started talking to his best friend about having sex with him.. the only thing u didnt do to him was actually go through with the act.. turn it around and if u found out after all these years of being with him, after knowing your parents are paying to keep u sheltered and safe cause u dont have anywhere else to go.. that u find out that ur bf has been texting ur best friend and shes been texting him back about what they'd like to do to each other in bed.. YOU"D BE HURT, PISSED..AND HEARTBROKEN...
2006-09-19 00:42:06 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face it...when you play with fire...you're gonna get burned. And, now even the boyfriend is smoldering. You had best cut your losses and move out while you still have any dignity left. After you are gone, you best think long and hard about what you would have done if the situation had been reversed and if you ever even think of having a second chance with Robbie, you had better start showing him in your actionsand behavior without him and possibly, somewhere down the road, he might want the two of you to try again.
Separations/divorces are no more final than relationships/marriages are. Never give up until the last dog is dead. There is always a chance, but girlie, you had better do some major changing in your way of handling things between your choices of friends and actions.
For every action there is a concequence...remember that.
Good Luck.
2006-09-19 00:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by lildragonlexi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, bet you wont be that nasty again in a hurry! I guess you can see that you should never have gotten involved in the first place, or sent mean texts, but seeing as you did, all you can do is explain that you had good intentions originally, but then got a bit mean for whatever reason, ( only you know why), and grovel and hope for the best. If Robbie's not willing to forgive, you really need to get out- it is after all his parents house, and they can kick you out- you wouldn't want it to come to that would you?
2006-09-19 00:21:31 · answer #3 · answered by bougainvillaea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play with fire get burned. Its time to get out of this condition with the new knowledge that you don't even joke about screwing around. I find it hard to believe you are still under tha roof after you told th BF you were "winding him up". I'll admit I don't understand all your language but to me that eans your are getting over him. That's not something you ever say if you don't mean it.
If you intend to stay around its past time to stop the BS and level with your BF about what's going on.
2006-09-19 00:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have never started texing the friend,the friend has set you up to get you out of the picture and it worked.your boyfriend probably was looking for a way to break it off anyway,I don't see no reason for him to break it off unless you had sex with the friend.
2006-09-19 00:17:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long question, next time make it short so that I CAN ADVICE U............. ROBBY , JAMES, HARRY BLA BLA BLA......
2006-09-19 00:29:01 · answer #6 · answered by drivingbolero24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too much drama for me....
2006-09-19 01:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
true he cant trust u
2006-09-19 00:33:33 · answer #8 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea WHAT you are talking about or what your question is...
maybe you should grow up...
2006-09-19 00:20:13 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray !!!
2006-09-19 00:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by Billie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋