I can't act to be respectful. But I am not hostile. I care about people whom I like.
2006-09-18 23:42:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Lack of respect doesn't mean disrespect.
But I dont tend to think much about what other people think.
That serves the purpose, but does not helps to make friends.
And no, I dont like to fake Smile.
2006-09-21 04:21:58 · update #1
Why not try to see the good in people if you feel you have to be judgmental about them. If you evaluate yourself, you may find you are not perfect either. A good way to start is to have a conversation with them. Your side of the conversation possibly to lean more to listening to others and hear the good they wish to share with you, and not to focus so much on the bad or annoying of what you don't want to hear. good luck, true friends are hard to come by and keep. don't be so judgemental
2006-09-18 23:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tammy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lol...welcome to the club...I have the same problem...but I realized few things.
1) Do not let your self to be read as an open book. The less the people know about you the more respect you'll have from them. The trick is to use personality shifting...but first u must study his/hers personality and then configure your self to their wishes. Never expose your real you.
2) Do not put so much trust in friends. 90 % of them will talk about you behind your back and reveal your secrets or some stupid things u have done before, so other people will see you as a joke.
3) Stop all contacts with people that you see as persona non grata (unwanted person) and that can harm your reputation, and when you see them, ignore them.
And how to make new friends? Call some acquaintance that doesn't know you so much well and doesn't have any connection with your past friends , ask him to hang out and for a time the friendship will be build.
2006-09-19 07:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by equilibrist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to look at who you are. Like yourself and then you will be able to open up to new friends. Always treat people with respect even if they don't deserve it. Pick your friends carefully. But it must start within you. You should start by changing your Avatar. It really is how people perceive you. You look like someone no one would want to approach.
2006-09-19 07:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all what is the reason that u lack respect for anyone who come across u...u should have mentioned that.
secondly i think we must not judge the people as may be in our veiw point he is a very bad person but u dont know may be he is much better than u or me............
2006-09-19 06:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by daisy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do Unto others what you want others to do unto you
so would you like anyone disrespecting you????
give respect take respect
like you they r also human so if you want to live in a human society you have to be human first
2006-09-19 06:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might probably just don't wanna get hurt to fully expose yourself to everyone you come across.
Try to smile to them at the first place, And just be easy with other.
2006-09-19 06:47:02 · answer #6 · answered by Chanel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"respect should be earned, not expected!!!"
if you don't respect people, there is probably a damn good reason why you don't... maybe they just ain't good enough to be friends with you...
try getting some acquaintences first and take it from there...
2006-09-19 06:46:41 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to respect yourself first then the people will respect you
2006-09-19 06:47:33 · answer #8 · answered by CrAzY LoVeR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn how to respect so others will do the same towards you
2006-09-19 07:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
courtesy never goes in vain....learn to respect others and u will get lots of it in response.
2006-09-19 06:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋