My whole family is very sociable and successful in many things. I am the only one with opposite traits. Why? Is there something wrong with me?
2006-09-18 23:13:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
aien't nothin wrong with not bein sociable
2006-09-18 23:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem sociable. I can't say much about successful. But I can say that maybe you are judging yourself too harshly, or by other people as the standard. The only true measure of success is your own. Are you achieving the goals you have set for yourself? If not, are you improving? Are your goals realistic? Where did they come from? Ask yourself these questions. I doubt you anything like your question insenuates.
2006-09-19 17:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you. There are many things that go into making each person who they are. First there is genetics, and traits can show up from generations ago. Then there is the environment that you are raised in, each person can be raised differently even in the same household. Then there are life experiences - each person sees the world differently. All of that put together and more makes you who you are - and who you are is perfectly fine just as you are. You don't have to be like your family just because you are related to them. Just be you and like who you are.
2006-09-18 23:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by Shadowtwinchaos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ther are many explanations for this. Some have been touched on by the people who have answered. Some reasons are hereditary e.g. taking after grandparents from either side. Other possibilities may be environmental e.g. moving homes at various ages. More importantly is that "there is nothing wrong with you". If there is, you would not have asked the question in that manner!!!
2006-09-18 23:26:10 · answer #4 · answered by Tom Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are genius but you are not in a position to proof your skills, that is why you are showing opposite traits. The only thing that is wrong that you have lack of confidence while talking to others, although you have excellent views.
2006-09-18 23:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by Neo K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course nothing is wrong with you. Do you know your grandparents characters too? And some people might be really introverts but trying to act sociable just to blend in. You cannot be that sure.
2006-09-18 23:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Hardrock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could have also asked: What is wrong with them instead! I went through the same situation in my family of 5! I am the rebel, the one who dares to think differently and tried a different road. They are now all looking up to me even though I am the youngest. Stick to your roots, you will suceed eventually if you stay yourself despite of their opinion. Maybe also you are antisocial just to feel different!
2006-09-18 23:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by Sherluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with U. You are just having different way of life as you have been watching the life of others in your family and so you are trying in different ways. Don't be so nervous. Enjoy life of your stle.
2006-09-18 23:22:19 · answer #8 · answered by dharap123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are not very sociable and not successful maybe you need to change your tactics.
2006-09-19 09:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by adiahudo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are not the same doesn't mean something is wrong. Are you happy with who you are? If not work on a change.
2006-09-19 01:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋