This is really complacated but my husband had a affair in nov of 05 and devestated me he left me and are three children I had some close friends who had a very bad marriage for years him and I started talking he left his wife for me feb 06 we are both divorced now very much in love and want to get married we were all christians when all this happened and we fell into sin bad but we are trying to fix it now I love him can god be in this marriage despite how the relationship started?
2006-09-18 22:54:03 · 20 answers · asked by pamlar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am wondering how you worked GOD into this equation!! Yopu were all cheating on each other with no remorse and now ask if its OK? If you wanted to screw around why could you not be honest with each other? Are you being honest now? Why are you saying God had something to do with this?
2006-09-18 22:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
God can forgive all people no matter what if u love one another and want it to it will God knows both of ur past but also wants the best future for both of u. I would say give it sometime before u jump back in to marriage spend time with one another and let God take it from there. Pray for one another God will see that and honor that u both r sorry for past things and r willing to make it work again. May God Bless u both and make a way for u both.
2006-09-19 00:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by robert_hall85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start, it's "God" with a capitol "G". I think that what you have done in conjunction with your adulterous lover to his wife (regardless of it being in your eyes a bad marriage) is disgusting. When tempted with sin, you are told to run away from it and you didnt. What you did was take another womans husband and do to her what's been done to you. As far as God blessing your marriage.....I have know idea, but what you and he did is disgusting, no matter how you try to justify it. The bible says that no adulterer will have any part in heaven, so I dont' really like your chances, considering what you and your lover are gulity of. Im sorry that your husband had an affair, but that didnt and never would give you the right to take another wifes husband because someone stole yours. I married a so called christian man and I had to put up with years of abuse and two faced behaviour, (his sunday face at church and then the true person straight after the service to the nect week) he ran off with a druggie and nut job from Latrobe Valley, but I held my composure (and I was kicked out of my home to boot) so I think Im more than qualified to speak up on this issue. You should be ashamed of yourself, you really should. What on earth were you doing spending time alone with this guy you now have stolen from another, What goes around comes around, so just think on that.
2006-09-18 23:05:46 · answer #3 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
According to 1John 1:9, the bible states that if you confess your sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
All of us have a past. All of us have made mistakes.
Yes. Both of you can ask for forgiveness of your sins and ask God to bless your marriage. God does not keep track of our sins, like we do. Confess your sins, ask God to bless your marriage and get on with the next chapter of your life.
God bless both of you.
2006-09-19 02:19:12 · answer #4 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just know that God is a forgiving God! Remember, No one is perfect but God. We all make mistakes but you must learn from those mistakes so you won't keep making them. Trust in the lord and he will see you through.
2006-09-18 23:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by babgrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! God will bless your marriage. But all of you will need to ask for forgiveness for your sins first.
2006-09-18 22:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God blesses all who love as God IS love. Yes, of course your marriage will be blessed by Him.
2006-09-19 02:10:33 · answer #7 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know about God but
I bless your Marriage.
2006-09-18 23:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is an awesome god, he can forgive us of all of our sins. The trials that we go through in life are usually a test of faith in our Lord. Have faith, and accept Christ into your heart and life and you will receive salvation.
2006-09-18 22:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by thomastl614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God will bless your marriage if both of you work hard to make your marriage work successfully!
2006-09-18 23:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋