I have loved someone that's not suitable for me, help..I know this is wrong for me that become a mistress, I don't wanna be too. But I can't control my love to him
2006-09-18 22:11:24 · 22 answers · asked by Dark Angel 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So ask his wife if it is OK if you share him!!
2006-09-18 22:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't fell bad: I know what you are going through, I to fell in love with a married man, we had an affair we both enjoyed ourselves until people started to suspect about us and made comments. He stoped the whole thing, eventhough he was upset because It felt right. We were both happy and I know he still cares he just doesn't want for people to say anything. You can't control what you feel if you do you will have all kinds of repressed feelings to deal with it. Be aware that if you do start something with him he will not leave his wife (unless you are one of the lucky ones) and you'll haave to deal with harsh ridicule from people that see you as a "homewrecker". Just think long and hard about it. Good Luck.
2006-09-19 05:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by SUNNY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have just made a really big mistake. Fall out of love now. Get distracted, go find another boyfriend, go get a hobby/sport/job etc. but don't go get a married boyfriend. You're going to destroy your life, his life and his family's life and they don't deserve that. And being a mistress in nothing but being a paid prostitute, is that what you think you deserve? Cool out.
2006-09-19 05:16:17 · answer #3 · answered by DrSH 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has married so this means he obviously loves this person. It would be different if it was a long marriage that was already failing but it sounds like this isn't the case. You have to just be strong. You always want something you can't have anyway. I bet if he came chasing after you, you'd soon get bored.
2006-09-19 05:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by claire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don`t allow yourself to be used, this is a dead end and life is too short to waste time playing games with him, he`s already made his decision what are you doing trying to make him change his mind? Face reality! he`s enjoying the one he chose to spend the rest of his life with, You`re playing a losing game, he will only use you, because you won`t let him go.
2006-09-19 05:30:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go easy on her guys.
Until recently, I have been in the same situation and still trying to extricate myself from the mess I'm in.
He is married and there is nothing you can do about that. It is not bad to for you to love him, but it is not wise to act on it right now.
Step-away while you still can. If your love is meant to be, then one day, you will be together.
Love is really letting go.
Be strong!
2006-09-19 05:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by 8s_fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's love, it's obsession. You don't have anything around you to keep yourself occupied. How much farther does this person have to go in order for you to realize this person is toxic. Quit while you're ahead or you WILL miss out on the perfect person for you. Open your eyes before the toxic "kills" you.
2006-09-19 06:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by Divo Saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need 2 ask urself if ur ready 4 this...
either way will b painful..
if u choose 2 stay & b his mistress, ul always live in misery & guilt
if u choose 2 leave him, ul b in pain but it'll heal
2006-09-19 05:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can control it. You simply choose not to. It's bad karma.
If you decide to continue with this relationship get ready for hurt and pain and being alone on holidays, special occasions, etc.
Find someone who is not already taken.
2006-09-19 05:15:58 · answer #9 · answered by Angela 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pray for the guy you love and the god will bring you better one! So many guys in this world, 3 billion guys in this world including the children and baby boy
2006-09-19 05:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by Shengjie Su 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me 2
2006-09-19 05:13:41 · answer #11 · answered by GOOCH 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋