I liked this guy, my friend liked him too and I asked him if he wanted to dance with me. We danced together for an dance and its all because my friends made us. After the banquet, I see him daily and whenever he sees me , he leaves the place I am in. I'm so confused and heartbroken. I think he hates me. I want to ask him out to this dance at our school,but I don't know what to do.
2006-09-18 21:42:38 · 13 answers · asked by Dreamer2000 5 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I liked this guy, my friend liked him too and I asked him if he wanted to dance with me. We danced together for an dance and its all because my friends made us. After the banquet, I see him daily and whenever he sees me , he leaves the place I am in. I am in his class for math and majority of the time he's with his friends. So I am very afraid to appraoch him. My friend is friends with him and he doesn't think he hates me. I'm so confused and heartbroken. I think he hates me. I'm kind of pale because I have to take care of my kind of ill sister so I stay inside the house a lot to take care of her. But, I'm not an goth or Manilyn More fan. I want to ask him out to this dance at our school,but I don't know what to do.
2006-09-19 21:34:07 · update #1
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-22 10:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
See darling..have a look and read very well others answers ..really you will find them all telling you be cofident and trust in yourself..and tey are right..!and i agree with you that its not nice from him to leave the place if you are there! its so painfull ! but at the same time we cannot say that he hate you..coz you know what ..there is some kind of people if they like someone good& different they made themselves as if they ignore this person just to maaake him feel like what you are feeling now...so and so be a patient and wait..may by the time you will find tha may he is not the guy which you like &think..or may you meet some one know how to love,respect and appreciate you a lot........ignore him now and let the coming days show you ..take care of yourself and your study...don't worry be happy...you are so pure dear..
2006-09-19 03:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for greener pastures. If this guy is so stuck up that he cant be in the same room as you are, then you are better off without him. Dont risk looking like a fool, and bloating his already bloated ego!
Go girl!
2006-09-18 21:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by Joy RP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it anymore. Like what they say there are many fishes in the ocean! Stop sulking! Smile! Someone might be falling for that right now.
2006-09-18 21:47:34 · answer #4 · answered by kai_sungit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just shy. The only way you will ever know he cares is to give it a try but just accept it graciously if he is not interested and move on.
2006-09-18 21:45:25 · answer #5 · answered by rollon_60 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him you are worry because you feel he is cold and distance to you, ask him if you have made something wrong with him. Try to know what's happened and depend on the answers tell me
2006-09-18 21:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him talk to him.
There is nothing worse than finding out later that he was just shy and embarrassed , and thats why he was acting that way.
2006-09-19 07:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by suzanne w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did he leave ? you have to befriend him, try to talk to him and all that. once you get into that comfort zone, it wouldn't be hard to ask him anything. just remember, you're open to any answer if you do that. it's best to be sure and atleast feel confident that he's not gonna reject you or anything...
2006-09-18 21:47:30 · answer #8 · answered by ♬müsic-to-yoür-ears♬ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a frustrated teen to me so just chill
at first ignore him maybe then he ll turn up to you
for more info how to go out with a frustrated teen read "unshaven beards "
2006-09-18 21:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by george grohan mendal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident girl ! noone is worth more than you ! confront him and whatever his response is, at least it'll save you from the agony. rejected ? so what ? move on!!!!!!!! i know you're troubled now, but you shouldn't burden yourself with meaningless things. hope i helped
2006-09-18 22:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by mar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋