first time having sex and the effect?

Question

when was the first time a women have sex.\
what disease and the difference after that?
i mean like do you ache when pee or something like that...

Answer 1

Women are supposed to have sex first time after marriage. But now a days we do not see it happen.

I am giving below a complete narration of this for the benefit of first timers in Sex. Generally the fear of disease is not there ache/pain (not while peeing) will be there and I have given all the measures to be taken care.

By the way are you expecting to have soon - Best of luck and ENJOY.

The experience of sexual intercourse for the first time can be romantic, exciting, sensual, fun, passionate, awkward, embarrassing, uncomfortable, disappointing, or any combination. To make the most out of your first experience, you may want to wait until the morning or day after the wedding night, when you are rested and ready to explore each other in a leisurely way, without fatigue or interruption. To minimize the discomfort or pain and maximize the pleasure of first intercourse, both of you need to take the time to explore one another's bodies and fully arouse each other before penetration. You'll be on an upward learning curve as you find out what feels good or not to each of you.

Many women (and their partners) worry about discomfort or pain the first time they have vaginal intercourse, and not all of them have this experience. People have varying levels of tolerance for pain or discomfort. If a woman does have discomfort, she and her partner need to be sure that she is aroused, that she has lubrication, both her own or some extra. If after these ideas, you still feel either discomfort or pain, you can let your husband know, and he can stop doing what is causing you discomfort until you can more comfortably start again.

Another reason for physical discomfort is that you two are just beginning to learn how each of your bodies fit with one another's. The following tips might be fun to experiment with as you both prepare for your first intercourse:

Create a pleasure chest that includes water-based lube, condoms if you aren't using birth control and don't want to get pregnant at this time, the book The Joy of Sex for ideas about a variety of sexual positions, and other products for sex play, such as massage lotion or oil, lingerie, an erotic movie or book, and/or a vibrator.
Focus on touching, kissing, caressing each other in ways that increase arousal before penetration.
Take it slowly.
Talk with each other about what feels good and how you both like to be touched.
Add a dab of water-based lube on the vulva, the opening of the vagina, inside the condom (if he is wearing one) before it is unrolled, and outside on the penis or the condom before penetration. Reapply as often as necessary to ease any discomfort and increase pleasure.
Experiment with various positions.
If an erection goes away, remember it will most certainly come back.
It's not uncommon for the end of the experience to be less extraordinary than expected. Sometimes one or both partners do not orgasm. Other times, a man's erection might not last long or it might come and go, and a woman may be more lubricated at some moments than at others. Taking your time, talking clearly, focusing on how good you two feel, and learning/practicing are the best ways to allow the two of you to enjoy this newfound intimacy together. Even when unexpected events occur, a couple's first experience with intercourse can be meaningful, positive, exciting, pleasurable, and/or fulfilling for many couples. A sense of humor goes a long way, and you have a lifetime together to learn.

Source(s):
Various web pages and personal experience

Answer 2

Hurting when you go to the bathroom in that way should not be an issue, however, it is not unheard of. There is normally a spot or two of bleeding the first time and there is most often some soreness involved for a few hours. If this ache continues the young woman should see a gynocologist. It is not normal for any of these issues to last more than a day. Good luck and be safe in your sexual practices. PLEASE