i wanted to know if it is normal to bleed for 3 days after you had sex for the first time??????also will it hurt me the next time i have sex
2006-09-18 21:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by blacksnow0909 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It is normal to have some bleeding after first intercourse. If your sexual partner is gentle and considerate, there should be no bleeding or pain the second time that you have sex with him. Try using (water-based) personal lubricants, like K-Y Jelly (in addition to a condom and birth control) next time you have sex. It should make sex more comfortable for you and your partner.
It is normal for some women to bleed after having sexual intercourse for the first time. Bright red in color, the bleeding is caused by stretching of the hymen until it tears. If the bleeding continues, it will turn dark red and trail off until it stops, typically within a few days.
If a woman is penetrated with fingers and experiences bleeding, there are a few causes. If she's a virgin, it's likely that her hymen has been torn. It's also possible that her vaginal walls have been scraped by her partner's fingernails, in which case it's important for her to be examined and get treatment so that she does not develop a vaginal infection.
In either case, a woman needs to see a health care provider for a check-up if:
bleeding is significant (is heavier than the first couple of days of her period, is constant, and/or soaks through a tampon and a pad);
bleeding persists for more than a few days;
there is pain that does not get better; or
she is worried about anything regardless (for some peace of mind).
In order to heal, it's important not to have any vaginal penetration (no penises, fingers, tampons, etc.) and orgasm until after the bleeding has completely stopped. If bleeding returns after vaginal penetration or orgasm has resumed, then go to a health care provider for a check-up.
While it's highly likely that the bleeding is in response to a sexual act, it's also quite possible that it may not be related. If the bleeding starts out as dark, rather than bright, red in color, then there may be bleeding from the cervix or higher up in the uterus. This is not normal after first sexual intercourse and needs to be looked at by a health care provider as soon as possible.
2006-09-18 21:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by Perplexed Music Lover 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i had the same problem when i had sex for the first time, i had already been told prior though that i had a thick hymen and that i needed to have it surgicaly cut but i refused i wanted that to be for my husband. so as i said i bleed like a stuff pig and i also hurt for the first 3 or 4 times and then things got better. so that could have been what has been going on with you, so you can either go on to the doctor or give it a few more tries and see what happens, is the bleedind severe? if so do not wait to see the doctor go on, mine was just spotting after the first day
2006-09-19 10:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO-that is not normal. Go to your physician ASAP. Something is not right. Bleeding after intercourse for the first time is normal, but not for 3 days after. And yes, it will hurt the next time, but it will get better the more you do it.
2006-09-19 04:30:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no girl but bleeding for 3 days isnt good, it hurts less the next few times from waht im told, then feels great
2006-09-19 04:04:51 · answer #4 · answered by Southie9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be the effect of first time sex. It is your menstrual period that has started. You need not worry. Next time there may be little pain and it will g after few time and you will really enjoy ever after.
If you feel it is not your menstrual period you should immediately see a gynecologist and act as per her advise.
2006-09-19 04:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie this is not good, go to the doc ASAP cause there MITE be something wrong or this is YOUR bodys way of dealing with sex for the first time.
The next few times get better and better....you'll love it..
Always remember, be careful and use protection!
Luv ya!
2006-09-19 04:14:03 · answer #6 · answered by Duchy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal. You should def see a doctor, girl.
No it should not hurt next time unless you are really tense and therefore squeeze very hard. Try to relax and always BE SAFE!
2006-09-19 04:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not for that long what the hell did he do to you ,go and see a doc he may have damaged something
2006-09-19 04:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is wrong. see ur doc quickly
2006-09-19 04:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋