Is messing around on the net adultery?

Question

If one is married and having internet sex/dirty talk over long periods of time with other women while wife is not noing adultey?

Answer 1

Yes it is.....it means the person is probably cheating on 2 persons: the wife and the other women if she is fallen for him and maybe not even knowing that he is married.

If you want to talk about, you are welcome to write me a mail and / or we could talk on messenger....

Answer 2

if you're asking this question, then you know to yourself that you are doing something wrong to your wife. either you call it adultery or not, it's still a form of cheating... and it's still not good for your marriage. messing around on the net is fun but messing around with people's feelings is terrible. it's a very selfish act. the other woman your messing with might have developed some feelings with you too. so there's two hearts risking for you.

it sucks that a lot of married people doing this kind of things. internet should not be an access to infidelity, unfaithfulness and dishonesty. you may not know that the person behind those screens are true to her/his feelings. if a marriage is suffering, then don't look for someone you'll going to mess with. go and fix it with your wife/husband for you have promised to be together forever whatever hardships and troubles you'll encounter.

Answer 3

Most definitely. Thats net adultery. He possibly won't be doing that when the wife is around. The time spent on internet sex could have been used wisely with his wife.

Answer 4

if you have to come here and ask us, it probably is for you.. :(

does your wife know and aprove? if not it might be adultry.

do you have sex more often with the other women than your own wife? if so, it might be adultry.

do you find yourself having more personal and frank conversations with the other women than your own wife? if so, it might an emotional affair.

if you've come to the point where you're questioning your actions, it has probably gone too far. take a period of time, 2-3weeks, and stop being online for personal leisure time. focus on work, read a book, get a hobby instead. most important, go out with your wife. set up a date night. surprise her with a picnick in the park. you need to spend time with your wife and get that spark back into your relationship.

you might also want to mention couples therapy with your wife and find out what you two have drifted apart and have sent you searching for companionship with other women online.

Answer 5

Adultery:n

extramarital sex: voluntary sexual relations between a married person and somebody other than his or her spouse

So yes talking dirty and pleasing yourself without your wife is Adultery, Remeber your Promise "Forsaken all others"

Answer 6

Yes it is, stop it now because it won't be worth it when you wife finds out, and she will. Play with your wife instead.

How would you feel if you found out your wife was taling dirty with some guys on the internet?

Answer 7

It depends on how you define adultery. similar to whether non-intercourses are sexual activities.

i don't like the fact that a man has a wife but actually having sexually related activities with other women on the net. to me, that's betray.

Answer 8

Definitely.

Answer 9

if the time intended for the wife is taken over by the internet thing(other woman/women online) and has taken up so much of his time.......that for me is adultery.......i wouldn't let it pass.......esp when it goes beyond just chatting

Answer 10

Adultery has a meaning and if you look it up in the dictionary you would find out its meaning.

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