My two ex-best friends caused me a psycological dillema. Choose THEM or my Girlfriend? They did that because they believed that I reduced the time of watching them. They didn't know that most of the times I ignored my girlfriend for them. And I always treated them with kindness
2006-09-18 20:25:24 · 20 answers · asked by Red Thanos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No they r not your real friends. If they were than they would not let a clause. Anyways at the end of the day who makes you more happy your friends or your girlfriend?
Life is about living in quality not in quantity.
2006-09-18 20:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the girl friend are the jealous ,thet shoulb be happy you have found someone to love and involve her not push her away ,any way this might be the one u marrie and have children with ,they need to grow up ,dont they like to see you happy and what the hell have they got thats better than your girlfriend ,do they give you love affection and a kiss goodnight ?no well there you go keep the girl friend and tell them if they cant respect ur choice in a woman ,who i might add you love ,then you no longer see them as friends ,because if they were they wouldnt treat you or her this way ,they need a good slap how bad is this ,
2006-09-19 03:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No cause if they were real friends they would of stuck by you no matter I had the same thing happen to me I went out with this guy for like two years and my best friend ditched me told me t was all my fault even though I spent more time with her then him, so no its not your fault stress less if you care about her heaps then stick with her hopefully your mates will realise that they've lost their best mate just hold in there.
2006-09-19 03:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, that's just ridiculous. Do your friends expect you to never have a girlfriend that you spend time with? Surely not.
My recommendation? Tell your friends that you value their friendship, but it's not reasonable for them to ask you not to have a girlfriend. Tell them that you'd like to keep them as friends, but if they insist on turning this into an ultimatum, then you'll pick your girlfriend over them.
I don't like ultimatums. In general, my inclination is to decide against whoever is giving the ultimatum.
2006-09-19 03:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're really not the kind of friends u can call friends. They're probably jealous of u or ur girlfriend. A real friend won't make u fall into a psychological dilemma. Find new friends.
2006-09-19 03:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They didn't give you a choice-they gave you an ultimatum. Sometimes, one must ditch best friends for true love, especially if they make you choose between the two. It appears by your question, you have made your choice already. Plus, maybe one or both were looking to score with your gf!
2006-09-19 03:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mudcat007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, You don't have a best friend unless they sacrifice there life for you. They are so called acquaintances. I believe a true friend would go way out for you and sacrifice his life for you no matter what. Nowadays you have to be aware of who you hang out with. You just can't trust anyone these days!
2006-09-19 03:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it at depends on how much of a ***** your girlfriend is. but even if she is you probably don't see it. BUT, if they were your real friend they wouldn't be trying to make you choose. although i live by the quote "bro's before ho's" they shouldn't be making you choose. you've got some thinking to do. and you should be talking with both sides and try to some kind of agreement
2006-09-19 03:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be they are jealous.. try talking with them. Leaving your friends for a girl is not a good idea.. you will get lots of other girls, but if you think they are your close buddies, dont let them go. Talk with them and figure out what exactly is the problem.
2006-09-19 03:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are your true friends then they would accept your girlfriend and would not make you chose which one to be with. If they were really your friend they wouldnt be jealous of you and your girlfriend instead they would have girlfriends and all of yall would hang out together.
2006-09-19 03:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋