I had a disageement with a friend and now he isn't speaking to me...how long should I wait for him to come around...or should i just tell him what I really think about it all?
2006-09-18 20:06:06 · 19 answers · asked by Simply Spoken 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should not have waited.
2006-09-18 20:13:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it's best to go ahead and let him know how you feel because if you wait until he talks to you again, it could start another argument, which isn't the idea. You can't, however, just let it drop if what the argument about is something that you feel compromises your beliefs or is a conscience issue. There have been many cases that I have stopped being friends with someone because their beliefs or what they feel is fine and I think is wrong just doesn't click, even though our attitudes did. There's just some cases where you can't talk to a person because of that. Like I don't think I could really be friends with someone who thought abortion was fine. It's not that I don't respect them or look down on them, just not someone I would hang out with. The same idea can be put into a child abuser. Perhaps what they're doing isn't wrong to them, but they aren't someone I could hang out with. So, I guess it depends on how deep the issue is as to whether or not you can just let it go or not. If it is something that you can, then do it.
2006-09-19 03:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell him what you feel without him and what you feel about him . And you are waiting for a person who don't know your feelings , first of all tell him about your feelings and know about his feelings for you. I think then your problems must end up. Don't wait for him now.., remember time never comes but should be brought out as we do it for the time. So Go to your friend and tell him about you friendship must not be broken for some silly reasons.
2006-09-19 03:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by kellen_de 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don'nt wait go and tell what u thought and remember friendship is a gift by nature and try u will never do with your friend what he is doing, as u understood the pain.
2006-09-19 03:12:45 · answer #4 · answered by nishu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value your friendship I would give that person space and let them come around, if you get pushy, you risk pushing that person away permananly. How important is it to always b e right
2006-09-19 03:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by sofora k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, if you are one of those "doormatt" people that let the other person get the bennefit of the doubt, at your own expense, STOP! If not though, you should be objective as possible and make sure to listen un-subjectively when he tells you how he feels.
2006-09-19 03:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think positive. If your emotions are negative don't do anything. Think about good results in any new contact and visualize a good outcome.
2006-09-19 03:11:36 · answer #7 · answered by hjhprov 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not wait .Don't waste your good friends for silly reasons
2006-09-19 04:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by icestorm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him what really bother you and though about it all. this way you can move on and whenever it get around then take it from there.
2006-09-19 03:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst try to speak to him.find out whose misrake is it.or if he is a true frnd he will come and talk to u.
2006-09-19 06:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by abeeksha0307 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tht oersn is ur frien na,he/she will come when the anger decreases,y u want him to talk ,uoly make the talks......may be tht persn also thinking the same way???,ok
2006-09-19 10:16:21 · answer #11 · answered by unlucky hand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋