can some one tell me do fathers have rights when it comes to there kids any more and how?

Answer 1

Fathers have exactly the same rights to their children as mothers do. More and more, courts award custody to fathers. Mothers tend to get custody more often, true, but it is not as ironclad as before.

Both parents have equal responsibility for care of the children. Non-custodial mothers are usually required to pay child support, just like non-custodial fathers. In general, fathers may have more financial resources than mothers and, therefore, when divorce occurs, pay more of their income than mothers toward child support if non-custodial.

I assume you are asking the question in regard to divorce and custody. It is the court that determines custody. As in all situations involving courts, too often, its the person with the best legal talent that wins a judgement in his or her favor. Beyond that, there remains a prejudice (prejudice is not meant in a negative manner as used here) toward mothers being awarded custody. That particularly is the case of children under the age of 12 or 13. Some continue to feel that a mother can provide more nurture to young children. Others dispute that claim.
After puberty, courts often allow children to select the parent they would rather live with, but that may depend on the maturity of the child.

After a custody decision is made by the court, either party always can appeal the ruling. As time goes by, either party can request a new hearing. The assignment of custody is not set in stone unless the parental rights of one of the parties have been terminated, either by the court, or by the parent through relinquisment of those rights.

In conclusion, fathers have the same rights as a parent as mothers. Courts more often award custody to fathers than in past years. Mature older children can request placement with the parent of their choice. A good attorney can ensure the rights of a father are honored. But, courts continue to award custody to mothers when young children are involved, except when its obvious the mother cannot provide suitable care.

Answer 2

Fathers have the right to pay for their kids food, clothing, education, shelter and other extras like pets, toys, friends, sporting activities. They have the right to chauffeur their kids to school, camps, sporting venues, events. They have the right to warn if the kid is not behaving. That's about it.