ughh..need help what can i do that are confident things? asap!!
2006-09-18 18:35:51 · 17 answers · asked by jackierosenfeld 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
dear friend,
develope strong self image, for that you have to have strong positive attitude.
use positive thinking,positive words.
see you change your thoughts and it will change your world.
attitude is everything.
be a positive thinker.
have wonderful day
raj
2006-09-18 18:40:13 · answer #1 · answered by dreamsunltd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to program the mind and there is nothing fast when it comes to this, buy the book The ultimate secrets of total self confidence, you'll be glad you did it's by Dr. Robert Anthony.
This book really changed my life at some point in time. I absolutely recommend it.
It will change yours too. Being confident doesn't happen over night, you have to work on things.
2006-09-18 18:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by You are loved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like anybody who has confidence, overconfidence, and not aware of their limitations it takes first a Mommy and Daddy who doted on you. Being born with a silver spoon in your mouth does wonders for a person. If you looked at the backgrounds of many of your highly successful people you will find they were "Mama's boys" and "Mama's girl's". They had parents who told them they could do anything and they were God's gift to this great earth, and they believed it. If you never had this you have to convince yourself of these things and honestly it's hard work and could take years. Real confidence doesn't come by buying a new shade of lipstick, sorry.
2006-09-18 22:00:08 · answer #3 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about getting a job or getting involve in some activities for a start. It would definately motivate u to dress up and get 'outdoors'.
Then comes the responsibilities of presenting urself well in your roles that will be intact with your involvement. Its also a great way to stimulate your intelligence and female instinct; trying to match your capabilities with the challenges that are to come.
The indepence part is also essential. Having your voice being heard, being able to stand up for urself, self achievements, making decisions, etc.
Updating your skills, may it be at work-related or personal, YOU are competing against urself, striving to be better. There wun be much harm being competitive with others, but be realistic
2006-09-18 19:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by justin h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about others thoughts, Do what you care about! Too many girls worry all the time about what they look like, hair style, recent clothes etc... You will be so much happier if you care more about yourself and less of others. As long as you are happy doing something, you are not breaking the laws, and not hurting others you are fine.
I know it sounds hard to do but in reality it's not. We all have a purpose in life & you'll be much happier if you stay away from the BS others toss at you and find out the truth early.
2006-09-18 18:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by NotSoTweetOne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes a girl confident??
Hmmm...the knowledge that she is loved, forgiven n absolutely ravishing in the eyes of the One who has made her. :)
Confident things to do?? What does that mean? Confident things...perhaps to give other people the benefit of the doubt....have respect for urself, not lowering your standards even when all ur friends r doing things that u do not approve of...and being secure. :)
Knowing that you are accepted by God really helps...
2006-09-18 18:47:14 · answer #6 · answered by Joyce 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, men love a woman that exudes confidence that comes from within. Walk into a room like Bam! Here I am walk tall (no slouching) smile feel happy and it will show, likewise feel confident in yourself and it will show. Don't be fake and don't become an actress. Remember to breathe and relax. And feel like your a badass woman, because you are!!! Most importantly do it for you!
2006-09-18 18:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by dabesgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You have to believe in yourself... Love and accept yourself as you are and then, treat yourself to little things like: Manicures, Pedicures, a New Hairstyle.
2. Always, Always, Always try to look your best; especially when you are feeing insecure!
3. SMILE...YOU WILL SUDDENLY FEEL THE CONFIDENCE IN YOU BLOOMING ON THE INSIDE AND SHOWING ON THE OUTSIDE.
Goodluck, you and everyone out there is beautiful in there own special way.
2006-09-18 18:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be Comfortable......when you are comfy, you are confident. That means dress the way you like, go to the places you are comfortable to be. Don't live to impress anyone else unless you can impress yourself.
2006-09-18 18:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not follow the herd. Do what you like most, Buy everything - clothing, accessory etc with individual style.
Instead of buying replica and knockoff handbags get something from:
http://www.craftstyles.com
2006-09-18 18:42:15 · answer #10 · answered by Trendy_from LA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look nice, your outfit, your hair, your makeup...feel good and used contact eyes when you communicate they'll know you are confident enough for them........and act like you are the only person can catch other eyes...but not too much...
just be yourself...and feel strong and confident from the bottom of your heart....
trust me..
2006-09-18 18:41:52 · answer #11 · answered by daneilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋