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i'm pregnant and i need to write a letter of apology

2006-09-18 17:51:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Well there is nothing a letter of apology can do really there is no need to be sorry just tell them and let them get use to it your going to have to be responsible for your child now it's time to grow up

2006-09-18 18:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1 0

Don't apologize over a letter. My dad is a definitely protective of me, and I know if my boyfriend did something he would want my boyfriend to be a man and apologize in person, maturely and respectfully. If you write a letter, it might show that you are a coward and you can't handle situations of pressure, that's not good. They want their baby girl to be with someone that is responsible for their actions and trustworthy. Apologize in person and be very respectful. I think you'd earn respect this way and at least you can hold your head high and know that you handled the situations like a man. Hope this helps! Good luck and best wishes :)

2016-03-27 08:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It would help to know your age and your relationship with your parents hun!
but without knowing that I would say IF you are afraid then have someone you trust or a friend that knows sit with you while you tell them,skip the letter and get to the point.
or if you feel comfy enough tell mom first and the 2 of you break it to dad?
only do the letter if no one knows and no one can sit with you for support!
IF you decide to do the letter dont apologize,just say I know this isnt what you had planned for me and I love you guys and we can work through this if you help me,and tell them.
an apology cant change the fact you are pregnant!it only makes you feel worse for being so.
if it were one of my daughters Id want her to come to me/us and tell me.
I hope you have that kind of relationship with one or both of your parents! good luck sweety!

Oh also dont feel like you are a disappointment or a letdown etc....I read a couple posts that were kinda harsh on ya!
life is life and there are NOT many people who wait to have sex until over 18 and married!
be truthful and sympathetic people!

2006-09-18 17:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by adc7492 2 · 0 0

It has been along time since I walked in your shoes. You don't need to write a letter of apology. You need to write one asking them to be understanding and supportive. Don't worry things will work out fine. I have a wonderful thirteen year old daughter to prove it. I have a great relationship with my parents. But I remember being scared to tell my parents that I was pregnant. My Mother was okay, not great and my Dad was just quiet. But now they still love me and my daughter. They adore their grandchild.

You do need all the support you can get. Stop feeling sorry for the pregnancy and start asking for help. Your parents might be upset at first but they will respect you and love you for being honest.

Perhaps bring the father of the baby or a sibling with you to tell them.

Good luck and God bless you and your baby.

2006-09-18 18:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by galbee 3 · 1 1

Don't waste your time feeling sorry. The damage is done. Now you need to think hard about what you will do now, especially about what is best for your baby. He/she is the most important consideration now. And don't ever forget that! This child did not ask to be created. And of course you should just say you are sorry to your parents. And next time, remember it's 2006 and BIRTH CONTROL has been around a long time. No one has to get pregnant if they don't want to or should not.

2006-09-18 18:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

M&D-
I made a mistake but I will be responsible for my actions. I will give the baby up for adoption so that a responsible couple can gain from my mistake. I promise to act more like an adult in the future so that you will trust and respect me again someday soon.

Your loving daughter...Nat

2006-09-18 17:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by elong 3 · 0 0

Dear Mom and Dad,

I'll get right to the point.

I am pregnant.

All that adivse you gavb me, all those educational films i saw in class, all those lectures went no here with me and now I find myself in this condition.

I an only asking for your forgiveness.

i made a terrible mistake and I have only myself to blame for this situation. I am sorry for the heartache and grief that I have visited upon you.

I may never forgive myself, but can you forgive me?

2006-09-18 17:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Dear new Grandma and Grandpa

I did something dumb because i was not thinking, and i will now need lots of help. Sorry for being pregnant.

Sincerely
Your Pregnant Daughter

2006-09-18 17:53:55 · answer #8 · answered by zether 6 · 1 1

Just tell them that you are sorry. If you must write it, think of everything you would like to tell them and ask for their support. You are going to need it.

2006-09-18 17:53:30 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 2 0

Did you ask for the expertise on how to get laid and make a baby.There is no excuse.Have you ever heard about birth control? You should be flogged with a whip you moron.

2006-09-18 17:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by maivas229 5 · 0 1

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