2006-09-18 17:49:07 · 8 answers · asked by mrsrhowell 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Three friends together are often a formula for jealousy and competition. Your friends my be competing for your friendship. Of Course they would never admit it. So there is no use talking about it to either one. Keep your thoughts to your self.
Concentrate on one friend at a time. Tell each friend that you are sorry that they are having a problem with each other, if they bring it up, because you still, and have always, considered them both good friends.
Resign yourself to being friends with each one, but do not suggest including the other friend in any events together. They have to settle the thing between them. Just be a good friend to each of them one at a time. Let them do the work.
2006-09-18 18:01:30 · answer #1 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I've been in a situation just like this before, so I know where you're coming from. I know it's tough, but the best way to fix it is to sit them both down and have a good long chat. You'll probably have to apologize for a ton of things that you didn't even know you did, and you might not mean it every single time, but try and show them how much you care about their friendship. Once they're both okay with you and they feel they can trust you, just try and start finding out what caused their argument. Then you can try and make them both see reason. I hope this helps, and good luck! :)
2006-09-19 00:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, but I am sympathetic for you. I started a bit of drama an hour or two ago myself. I really didn't want to but something was bothering me so I mentioned it to the person who caused the bothersome feelkings I had. She was offended, etc. Anyway this is your issue. My best advice would be to give the situation time. One person can only do so much. I'm sure if you could you would fix everything right away. Sometimes it takes certain people longer than others to get over a fight.
2006-09-19 00:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by ms. fix-it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say what it was about, it really would depend on the argument. You need to talk to them both one on one and let them know you are sorry and wasn't trying to cause problems. Then you need to get them together and have them talk it out instead of arguing. Other wise just let it runs its course.
2006-09-19 00:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by larrys_babygurl_4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get them together to apologize for the whole mess
2006-09-19 00:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and talk to your friends! Just be honest with them.
2006-09-19 00:50:41 · answer #6 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what the argument is.... sometimes you just need to let it run its course and other times you need to step in
2006-09-19 00:50:31 · answer #7 · answered by Lexee M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there it is tough. you just have to let them know that you shouldn't have said anything and everntually they will forget it. ALTHOUGH it doesn't feel that ay at the time
2006-09-19 00:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋