I met this guy. He seemed to be nice. He was going through a divorce. BIG RED FLAG! He started getting really close to me & was promising the moon & the stars. He wanted me to meet his family, he showed everyone pictures of me & bragged about "us". He started mentioning wedding bells even. Now, this was only like a week & a half in the "dating" thing. I started wigging out. He was coming on so strong it made me feel he was desperate but I gave him a chance. We continued to see each other , ended up having sex then the current soon to be ex wife starts calling & banging on his apt door so he starts the whole "Im confused speech". He then started avoiding me.We live in the same apt complex. I mean this guy just ditched me after screwing with my emotions. I got a tip that he and his soon to be ex was driving around in his convertible mustang. I found them, and pulled up beside them and explained to her that I was the girl he had been f'n.ha ha..wonder what will happen next? beat him up?
2006-09-18 16:56:56 · 14 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just let him go and move on. He's not worth it. Just don't repeat the same mistake twice.
2006-09-18 17:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Been there (except he was divorced). The ones that come on like gangbusters at warp speed are the worst offenders and the "relationship" fizzles as quickly as it started. You learned a valueable lesson here, my friend: In the future, when a guy comes on strong, run for the hills. Don't worry about what will happen next.......just avoid him at all costs. Trust me. He's a manipulative user. And remember, if he could do that to you, he could do it just as easily to other women....and he will.
2006-09-19 00:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First everything was moving so fast. Damn did you know anything about him. It was too soon after the divorce for him to be talking marrying someone else. You was the rebound. Second, move on. There are too many men out there to be fighting over a piece of a man.
2006-09-19 00:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he actually care about his ex, if he does then leave him be, because it's a long time to be with someone, and not give them a second chance. If he's just a jerk, good for you girl.
2006-09-19 00:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO GROW UP! stop seeing guys who are CONFUSED AND MARRIED. it's a bad ideal to date guys going Thur a separation they are not the ones to start a meaningfull relationship with. Why cause DRAMA and tell the wife you f'ed her hubby THEY were separated! i would have kicked your as* for acting that way to me.
2006-09-19 00:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say...he was just using you for a bang on the side...many men do that...and say they are confused...
hope you don't do that again...many men are just dogs..
2006-09-19 01:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by hononegah1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why escalate the situation? Just chalk it up to bad judgement on your part and move on.
2006-09-18 23:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by live2ride 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that is some funny. i thnk u did good u coul have said how does my p***** taste but u didnt u kept it sweet and simple 10 cool points for u
2006-09-19 08:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by docask 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so not only are you loose and willing to sleep with another woman's husband, but you're also violent and willing to "beat up" someone?
seek therapy. quickly.
2006-09-19 00:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by .jess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you sure gave it back..........LOL........Good for you........I can't believe that you fell for the whole I'm going to get a divorce thing, though..........LOL
2006-09-18 23:59:52 · answer #10 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋