when my wife and I were dating she would act like she couldn't wait to suck me off, now I have to beg her for a bj. wassup with that?
2006-09-18 16:56:22 · 21 answers · asked by tom s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ahhh...u wrote the rite question at the rite time...is this my hubby?! LOL..seriously, though i've just been plagued by that question by my man. Well, from my experience it's about the little things he does for me during the day (we've been married 2yrs; together for 7 yrs)...offer a massage, help w/chores, help w/baby, buy a gift for no reason...u keep up the romance...she may keep up w/the bj's...don't know her or her personality, but most women just want to feel loved and romanced (I know we're so darn demanding and whiny) but, would u rather a man's love (LOL)? Just kidding. Spend one night doing things for her...use candles, use alcohol, use chocolates, use music for godsakes...set the mood, set the pace - DO NOT BUG?BEG FOR A BJ!!!! She'll probably kick u in the balls for that!! Tell her u don't want to go all the way,, u just wanna play...if there's any spirit left in her...she'll wanna play too! good luck...key is not too beg...it f-ing annoying and turns a girl off faster than ice!!!
Plus when u first started dating she probably thought she needed to do this to keep you!!! Now ur old "news" and need to keep updating!!!just picking! good luck!
2006-09-18 17:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You must be one of those guys who romance and are sweet when dating, just to get the girl and then think that you have her so why are you supposed to do that now....she must wonder where the sweet man that turned her on went to also!!!!!
2006-09-19 00:09:36 · answer #2 · answered by Country 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well it's obvious that she was only trying to impress u in the beginning and now that u are married, u are seeing the real her.
2006-09-19 00:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is called being married. Funny but soooooo true for the majority.
2006-09-18 23:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by dooter686 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Like Chris Rock said it is like she was auditioning for the position
2006-09-19 00:00:08 · answer #5 · answered by drakekse 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
u ever hear the saying game over after the wedding she owns u unless she is really nice
2006-09-18 23:58:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i neaver had to beg her ho yes i beg her to stop all the time she is the best ever
2006-09-19 05:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you fell for the bait
i bet she has gained weight , cut her hair, wears frumpy clothing and now wants to be "romanced" to bed and even then will not do it like she used to....
sorry to say you've been duped
divorce her now while it's cheap and before you get any children
2006-09-18 23:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
it sucks....we get nothing out of it...are you returning the favor...if not ...then there ya go...i hate BJS myself
2006-09-18 23:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by mercedesofladies34 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've never been married but I've heard married men say similar things........perhaps I should stay single.
2006-09-18 23:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by brewbeer212 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋