if u had a man that worked his *** off every day but gave you nothing else but money what would you do?
2006-09-18 16:44:24 · 39 answers · asked by bltchygirl22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no love just money. you can have everything you want but love
2006-09-18 16:47:33 · update #1
he makes over 2000 a week his has his own company
2006-09-18 16:50:18 · update #2
we have sex 2 to 3 times a day
2006-09-18 16:51:24 · update #3
i have been with my husband 7 yrs now and he is a great man but seems to only care about money and working i know he aint cheating cause at any time i can find him at work he just seems to hate me more when he hears gys like the way i look
2006-09-18 16:56:41 · update #4
he has never cheated and i know where he is all the time . we have never had and time alone the first night we spent to gather we has our first child we have never had one night alone i do not feel the same way as i did when we got married i guess im the bad one but i dont think he even feels the same way i have a pic on yahoo messanger and every one who sees it says i look good and i know i look good but he thinks he is god for some reason
2006-09-18 18:36:31 · update #5
Ohhh my gosh. That's my exact situation right now. It's so depressing. He "occasionally" says he loves me and I sometimes feel like he does... but I've been so sick the last couple of days that I haven't been cleaning and things like that. He actually calls me from work and asks me if I've started cleaning yet... and gets home, tells me I need to start cleaning (which I normally do, he is the one who makes most the mess when he gets home.. I've just been so sick AND forgot to mention 8 months PREGNANT!) I was struggling trying to lift things and bumping my stomach into corners of tables while cleaning and did he ask me if I needed help or was okay? NO! Then when I started complaining, his response is this : "Well, I give you money." ............ WTF? Thats his response to everything!!! So.. basically I've spent all night crying (not that he tries to comfort me ONCE!) Plus, he goes out of his way to work overtime. So.. really I don't get but like 5 minutes of attention a day (and lucky if I get that...) And for people who say its about money... not for me it isn't. He gives me $50 a week and the rest sits in his bank account (he wont get a jointed account or give me more money). I currently dont work, because like I said I am 8 months pregnant and I had a job as a supervisor until 11 weeks ago (had to quit because I was getting so sick).
I highly suggest not getting too deep in a relationship with a man like that. As much as I love my husband.. I don't feel it back and I don't know how much longer we will last...
To add: My husband makes a lot of money too... and if you get sex that much... your lucky! I get it probably about once every 3 weeks or once a month... AND we've only been married a little over a year... and we are both 20. I know he isn't with another girl... how do I know? Because if he isn't working or sleeping... he is sitting right here on this computer... literally for 12 or 14 hours at a time.
2006-09-18 16:50:57 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's what i'm after, i'd stick around. if not, i'd save it for both of us and spend it on a vacation or whenever we have some time to go somewhere together and have fun. ( find a romantic place to go, or stay at home and buy some sexy clothes, bubble bath, or bath salt, or bubble fizz, candles, any drinks doesn't have to be alcohol but maybe sparkling and get sexy with him )just have to make sure bills are paid so you won't have worries while spending money during vacation.
oookaay... if no love, and he wanna keep on giving, i'd say save it if you can't spend it all at once. sooner or later you'll have something important to use it on.
but... do you love him?
i should take my own advice. but i can't . our house is crazy with 9 yr old, 2 yr old and 2 mos. old. crazy, huh?
if he loves you, at least one of these should work. if you're gonna do the romantic bath, you have to plan it on his lighter days.
ooohh, well then what are you doing together if there's no love?
do you think he does love you and the reason why he hates it when guys like the way you look is coz he's jealous and mad that he can't do anything because he's busy at work?
some husbands think they're proving their love to their wife by paying the bills. they think it's all women want. they think it's the only way there is to show they care, or their way of taking care of their wives.
2006-09-18 16:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs. JSV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he just has a hard time showing love. Why do you think he doesn't love you?? Perhaps talk to him about showing his feelings. If you are having sex 2-3 times a day. Use that time to sneak in a "Tell me you love me." Good luck, he must have feelings for you to be working so hard and still find the time and desire to have sex 2-3 times a day!
2006-09-18 16:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is so much more to life then money and if i do not have the time and attention i need in a relationship then i do not feel loved and that's always more important then any amount of money i mean you can entertain yourself for awhile with money but it can not buy happiness forever
2006-09-18 16:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sheesh.
in a way it's fun to have all the money i want. but in another way, i dun get anything besides money from him like his love, care n concern.
have a chat with him of how u feel. doesnt mean u have to leave him right. everything can be solved if both parties are willing to listen to each other.
2006-09-18 16:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he not like every other man and want sex 24 7? Odd! Have you tried talking to him abou it? If it's a very exhausting job he might just be tired.
2006-09-18 16:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by sookie1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends what is your ultimate goal with him. If you truly love this man and you want this to last, you need to talk to him. Help him to understand your POV. Schedule a trip or make plans. This is what I would have done. On second thoughts, are you sure he is 100% committed to you?
2006-09-18 16:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the money is good but a lot of us females need to be held by that man,i would demand some time so we can both enjoy eachother befor it's too late
2006-09-18 16:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by stoksbunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather live in a shack with a man that had little money, but made me laugh, loved me with all his heart, and made me feel safe in his arms, then live in a mansion with a man that pays no attention to me.
2006-09-18 16:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave him to find someone who would love me. Money is a necessary evil, but will not make you happy in the long run.
2006-09-18 16:45:52 · answer #10 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋