Ok, i know i've got bad habbits that i'm working on. I also know i'm a great person, i have a good personallity and i look good. I get into a realationship and i'm loyal, i like to spoil the people i'm with, and i love to cuddle. So why cant i find a girlfriend that will remain loyal to me, why every time i get into a realationship they cheat on me.
2006-09-18 16:15:02 · 22 answers · asked by Dark Angel 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
In response to some answers-one i know for a fact i'm not selfish, and i don't "fall" for every girl i've been with-only one, thank you. And yeah, i like showing affection-i don't like wait on them hand and foot, i give them space-i just like being with someone-is that so wrong? As far as the bad habbits-it's mainly smoking-which i am quiting. I hate drunks so that's not it, and not really into the drug thing for about 4 years now.
2006-09-19 12:40:15 · update #1
THAT broke my heart. SOME day soon you will find a diamond. TREAT her like gold. LOVE her, protect her.DONT taKe her 4 granted.I wish you all the best. HANG in there, there are good women that dont cheat , ok?
2006-09-18 16:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't found the right one yet. That's a really crummy answer, I know. Do you live in a small town or a big city? Maybe you need a change of venue. I guess something to try is to to start doing group activities like volunteering, or local theater, or anything else you're interested, and just try to meet people with your interests. Maybe start a book club? You can always try those online dating places, they're starting to get a better reputation. You can at least see who's out there, and a vague, superficial description of what they want.
2006-09-18 16:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by answersBeta2.1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly Angel,
You could be scaring them away because you are so affectionate. People are afraid to deal with someone that show that their love is genuine.
The other reason could be you falling to fast, not making sure she is what you want. Take your time screen the women u meet. Ask them about their past, ask them what they are looking for and take your time giving all of you.
MzLene
feeling your loneliness
2006-09-18 17:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by MzLene 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not gay so I really dont know how to find a girlfriend....lol..But I can say this Do u think it's something about yourself that u need to a improve,Is it the way u carry yourself or act around girls??? Last but not least u might just be to kind hearted and sweet to people...Some girls just dont appreciate that, they perfer someone that's gonna walk all over them I guess.. But you'll find someone that appreciates you..
2006-09-18 16:45:45 · answer #4 · answered by mstiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me, except the spoiling, don't like that in particular. If you live in Ky then here is my email trisdabit04@yahoo.com if you want futher then ask for my digits. Another thing I've never cheated. Also give a list of your bad habits.
2006-09-19 04:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by 4me2no&u2findout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough getting past being cheated on but you need to reflect on why your girlfriends are doing it. Maybe u need to step up your game in the bedroom and find out what the woman likes as well as keeping up on kicking those bad habits. Also try speed dating for lez, or womanline.com.
Good luck.
2006-09-18 17:04:44 · answer #6 · answered by Curious Dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you think maybe it's your bad habits? Do you do drugs or are you a drunk?! Girl, i can't tell you why because i don't know ya! Maybe, your not giving them what they need! You know what i mean! Hope you find yourself someone, good luck!
2006-09-18 16:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by fairyjin1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love someone, don't show or give everything. You should have keep your ego sometimes. When girls knew that you're head over heels inlove with them...they feel, that you'll do everything for them no matter what...whenever she made mistakes in your relationship, she knows you'll forgive her...that's boring sometimes...or maybe they don't like at your bad habit..
2006-09-18 16:25:39 · answer #8 · answered by zhynee l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya, i've been through all that. Sometimes being single is what is best for that moment in time though. Don't worry, someone will come around that deserves you.
2006-09-19 03:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fear no more! i will love you!! no really its prob cuz you have such a big heart that they all feel they can take advantage of you! please don't allow that you seem like a total sweet heart. and go for the girls that are kind and have a big heart too! good luck sweetie! *muah*
2006-09-18 17:12:33 · answer #10 · answered by brandy t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋