I know it's a fact... I have experienced the reality... I prefer to be with a younger guy myself... but I don't understand why some younger guys prefer to be with ONLY older guys ( like me ) ???
2006-09-18 16:01:31 · 14 answers · asked by J Andy A 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well for me, there are various reasons. I'm unusually mature for my age, so I tend to only get along with significantly older guys. Sexually, I typically find older guys more desirable. Mature looks are a turn on for me. I'm not talking elderly guys here, but 30-40yr old is physically very desirable for me. I am more attracted to older guys because they are, well...more mature. Here again, I'm rather mature for my age and don't like young, hyper, obnoxious boys in their 20's. I like calm, adult-like, mature men with a more level head on their shoulders. Granted, some guys twice my age are less mature, but it's not the norm. Older mens' bodies are more masculine and physically more developed than guys my age. Another big physical attraction. Older men are typically wiser and more mentally developed and stable. Less likey with guys in their early 20's like me. The fact that an adult male would show interest in me is appealing. The fact he is all of those things I mentioned above, yet wants me in every way is appealing. Getting that kind of attention from guys older than myself is really appealing. Getting that kind of attention from, say a 40yr. old, is a hell of a lot more exciting to me than getting the same attention from, say a 20yr. old. The sense of domination is also appealing in some ways.
2006-09-18 16:40:27 · answer #1 · answered by palebeachbum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i was younger (18-23) i like being with older guys, they save all the trouble and drama (most of the time) compared to a young guy same that age. But then when i am 25 -26 (now), i like someone around my age. Sexual experience, well not really why i prefer older guys.
2006-09-19 00:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by hoang anh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer older guys because I'm more comfortable around them. Most I know are not into games like most younger gay guys. That gets really annoying really fast.
2006-09-19 00:16:03 · answer #3 · answered by c_jayo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they trust the experience
I'm going on my experiences as I like older women, but something about being with someone that knows what they are doing makes you feel better and safer. Also its a protection thing for some as there are a lot of younger people who feel that older people will be there for them unlike younger people who may abandon
2006-09-18 23:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by HL2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older guys are more mature and more confident with themselves. Young gay guys can be about as bad as women sometimes - too much drama
2006-09-18 23:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just find experience and maturity atractive. I've found myself attracted to age groups from anything to teens and all the way up to forties and fifties. It all depends on the guy. Sometimes "daddy" sex is just how they get off.
2006-09-19 00:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the is the sense of experience that comes with age.
2006-09-18 23:04:34 · answer #7 · answered by hopeless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were molested by a male authority figure in their younger years.
2006-09-18 23:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
1 there not as competative.
2 there less likley to cheat.
3 they are gratefull for the attention.
4 they have time to pay attention to someone else.
5 they are easier to please and far less demanding.
2006-09-18 23:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by Bearable 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's all in the eye of the beholder. No other reason.
2006-09-19 12:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋