ok well me and this girl have known each other 4 about 2 and a half yrs and weve ben like best friends since we met, but now im feeling 4 her as more then a friend, shes in to to other guys but there not bf nd gf....they like make out nd stuff ...w/e.... but some times it seems like she likes me to ...like we went 2 fireworks and she layed on the fround right next to me and stuff like that....but idk if i should tell her i like her so that we may hav a chance of being together or not cus it cud ruin out friendship...wat do u think i shud do??
2006-09-18 16:00:11 · 12 answers · asked by Stubs 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If your friendship is strong, it can withstand at least telling her your feelings. Some of the closets couples have started out best friends. I believe that in a good healthy relationship, your partner is your best friend, so id find out fi she feels that same way and if not, u 2 should still be friends
2006-09-18 16:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by azuleyes404 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I was in the same situation a while ago...I eventually asked her out. She basically blew me off. It was pretty obvious the answer was a no. For a while conversation between us was really awkward but I didn't let it bother me...if she flirted with other guys it would bother me but I never showed it because I didn't want to look like a jealous asshole and I wanted to save the friendship. Eventually we made it back to where we were before I asked her out and I'm with a really cool girl right now...
So if you're worried about her saying no...don't worry. If she says no it's not the end of the world. And if you accept the fact that she said no and if she's really your friend then things should return to normal after a little bit of awkwardness.
But let's hope for a yes.
2006-09-18 18:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by MTY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can see where you are comming from. first u have to think of some of these things
1. she might just like u as a really close friend
2. if you do decide to go out with her will it screw up your friendship if you were to break up
and
3. are u shaw you really are willing to put your friendship on the line to become closer to her...
if i was in your situation, i would talk to her about it first and not just go straight up to her and ask if she wants to go out with u. she might feel a bit shocked about it. make sure you both are ready to become more than just friends...
Good luck! :)
2006-09-18 16:35:56 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to ask her if she has any different feelings for you. She might have the same feelings. But the only way to figure this out is to ask her. If she says she likes you then make sure you let her know your feelings. don't let your chance pass.
2006-09-18 16:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by sr22racing 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love and happiness will be effective if your friendship is so strong. Try to ask her coz anyway, I am sure by this time you are already open with each other and there's that bonding that will keep your together. Try it.
2006-09-18 16:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Maganda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really normal to start feeling something for her
but dude i think this woman is somewhat messed up , she is too eager to make out and stuff, with like many men(atleast thats how i understood your story)
she cant really be too loyal
you have to wait for a very special sign saying that you both have a great chance together
you dont go asking someone to be your girlfriend, if you only feel something?you must feel something great to make it work, if you really care deeply for her, and if youre strong and mature enough to handle a woman who loves to make out with guys then go forth
but really this woman in my idea, is very very hard to deal with
if youre not really that in love with her dont proceed
be cautious
friendship is too important to be wasted by a pretty useless relationship
make sure you really love her first before you do anything what youre feeling right now might just be romantic infatuation
2006-09-18 16:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I say go for it! sounds like she's into you... maybe you can ask her friends about her liking you first... just to make sure. and if they tell her you like her but she doesnt end up liking you back, then you can say you were just curious... and your friendship would never be in jeopardy!... well good luck!
2006-09-18 16:09:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha! thats so cute. me and my boyfriend were best friends for 10 years and recently we became a couple. Go for it. my only regret was not asking him out sooner.
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