What Subjects should I talk about when talking to girls?

Question

What topics should I talk and not talk about when talking with girls?

Answer 1

Break the ice with NASCAR standings, then once you’ve got her attention, it’s on to the warts, chicks dig warts, preferably the genital variety, any relatives with mental conditions would sure to be of interest, how much it pisses you off when the debt collectors call late at night and weekends, outstanding warrants, and you can always tell her the creative ways you’ve dumped your other girlfriends. Just avoid girly topics, and you should be fine.

Answer 2

It varies my friend, differnt girls have different interest & or different likes & dislikes. Ask around first (her close friends, relatives, parents, teachers ext...) then take a day or more if u wish 2 compile questions, scenerios & or even a simular story based on anything that has happened 2 her. Does she have any pets( if a girl has a any kind of pet, u can bet 9 out 10 times she's very willing & comfortable talking about it, why else would she have it, if she didn't like her pet) what kind of clothes does she like & wear( compliment her & bare in mind the colors that she wears often). If u just site down 4 about 10 - 15 minutes & think about all the possible things that she does or doesn't & things she likes or doesn't like, I more than positive that u can come up with things 2 talk about, its naturaly in our system, but its the nervousness that stops u from actually going into action, but by nature, guys r programed 2 have pick up lines or conjure up something 2 talk about, don't worry so much, it's comes out once u get started. Good luk & take care, God bless u.

Answer 3

Ask her for a minor favor.Pay her a compliment. If she looks great that day or if she said something amazing during class, then tell her so.Talk about a subject that makes you feel passionate and persuasive. When you're talking about something really positive, you're going to be at your best .................. If you're passionate about music, then talk about your favorite bands. If you have something that you love to do, then talk about it with her.Think of the pauses as her chance to impress you. Don't feel like you need to generate topic after topic for conversation. During the pause, you want to silently invite her to take the initiative. If she does, then you'll know that she's enjoying talking to you.......................... Watch the way she uses her body. If she makes eye contact with you, lightly touches your arm or leans in toward you while you're talking, then you can feel confident that she's into you....................................................

AND YOU WILL SURELY MAKE HER PEACEFUL AND HAPPY TO TALK TO YOU...........

Answer 4

When talking to girls, I think the first thing you should talk about is them. Ask them questions and listen to their responses to see what they are interested in and on what level. Then, try your best to follow their lead. Talk about what interest them. And if they're superficial, keep it superficial. If they're deep, say something profound. If you do that well enough, you may arouse their interests, at which point they will begin to be inquisitive about you. That's when you know you're in there.

Answer 5

Talk About What's On Her Mind, Then Go From There.....

Answer 6

Generally, stay away from the typical questions:

"What do you do?"
"What do you do for fun?"
"What school do you go to?"
"What kind of guys do you like?"
"What classes are you taking?"

And talk about things like art, travel, relationships, pop-culture, and interesting things in the news. Don't bring up too serious topics in the beginning. That should come later. Also you really should practice your "social muscles" by talking to and approaching a lot of OTHER girls. Conversations skills are skills, which means they are learned. So that means you should read up on the subject and practice.

Rod

Answer 7

Try and find things you both like, but don't drone on about something she isnt interested. (if she is looking around avoiding eye contact, has her arms crossed or body turned away, she isnt into it.) Safe topics are movies, music, tv, family, mutual friends, school, future plans. Most people think its best to stay away from religion, politics, or your ex girlfriend, most girls arnt that into sports talk either, but you dont know untill you try, and then if she isnt into it move on. But the best way to keep a conversation going is to ask her about herself, as long as you arn't prying or passing her personal boudries.

Answer 8

The opposite of what you talk about with your straight guy friends. Ask about her and things that she likes. Girls like it when you show an interest in them. Don't talk about things like boobs, cars, sports and hunting. Most women don't really care about those things.

Answer 9

Depends how old you/she is, where you know her from, that kind of stuff. If you know her from school start with that. From work, start there and go to what did you do last weekend or what are you going to do. If you know the same people, find out how she knows them.

Asking about hobbies or even fav music or movies. Always good topics.

Answer 10

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Answer 11

The key is to not have specific topics in mind but instead let the conversation flow where it needs to and the topics will also flow. Trying to force topics on someone will not work. If you have good conversational skills you don't need to worry about topics.

I'm a dating coach and the majority of guys I teach don't know what to talk about with girls and they very quickly run out of things to say because any script they had in their head has become redundant after the first 30 seconds.

Running out of things to say is very tricky to begin with but once you get the knack you'll never have this problem again.

We are all able to have great conversations with friends but the moment we are in front of a girl we are attracted to the whole thing goes out the window. The reason is that we are out of our comfort zone and we start trying too hard to say the right thing.

We begin thinking too much about what we're saying and this just leads to mind blanks and a very stilted, one sided conversation.

Actually all you need to do is speak in exactly the same way as you do with your friends. When you're with your friends you don't worry about topics, they just come up.

Try this 3 step routine -
1. Listen to what the other person has said.
2. Relate something that they have said back to yourself and tell a personal story or anecdote.
3. Repeat.

This should make up 90% of your conversation. Questions and assumptions should make up the rest.

If you keep asking a question after each statement the other person has made the conversation will be over very quickly because they will get very uncomfortable.

Examples -.

This is the wrong way to do it (her comments begin with "-"):

"You look very tanned, have you been on holiday?"

-"Yes, I've just got back from Italy"

"What part of Italy?"

-"Rome"

"Was it good?"

-"Yes"

Conversation over. You have run out of things to say.


(This is the right way to do it. We take the topic of Italy and relate it to ourselves.)

"You look very tanned, have you been on holiday?"

-"Yes, I've just got back from Italy"

"I've actually been to Italy 3 times and although I really like the weather I find that all that pasta and pizza too much of a temptation and I end up coming back a stone heavier"

-"Ha, I actually was very good while I was there and I didn't overeat. I drank a lot though"

(Now we take the topic of drinking and relate it back to ourselves)
"Yeah I love Italian wine, I never liked wine when I was growing up but now I have a real taste for it. What do you prefer, red or white?"

-"I like white wine"

"I prefer red myself, especially with good food; I feel it can really round off a good meal. What part of Italy did you go to?"

Can you see the difference? By latching on to topics that they bring up and telling lots of little stories you will make the other person feel more comfortable and you will encourage them to contribute more and begin telling stories of their own. Before you know it you'll be chatting away like old friends.

The key is listening and then saying whatever comes in to your head about any topic they bring up.

This video explains it in more detail -

https://youtu.be/DAw3OP7Ggiw


Jon Matrix
Male Mastery
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