I think Im a pretty good looking guy, I have been dated about 3 guys so far this year and none of them have worked out. I feel like giving up. What do you guys think?
2006-09-18 15:50:51 · 22 answers · asked by Patches 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I for one would think men would be lining up for blocks to date you. Don't give up. You have so many things going for you. You just need to find the right guy, and that.. is very hard. Good luck.
2006-09-19 21:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by urbania05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking in the wrong places? Are you meeting them at bars and clubs? If so that's what you need to stop. You are a good looking guy and that's a plus but a little bit of personality never hurts either. You're not being too shallow are you? Don't date a guy based soley off his looks. You need to meet someone that makes you happy and who you make happy. Just keep looking, there is someone out there for everyone, you just haven't met him yet, so don't give up just yet!
2006-09-18 22:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by JR 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're pretty good-lookin' too.
But in answer to your question... it's suppose to be hard when you find a boyfriend. As far as work-outs... are you looking for a weight lifter or a lover? Save the work-out for after lights-out...
Sorry, just trying to make you smile. Hang-in there, he may be just around the next corner.
2006-09-18 23:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by J Andy A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how bout this,
sit down and right the qualities you would like to have in your ideal mate and then as you find your mates check those qualities off your list... and the one that fits your list closest is a keeper...
you dont have to match the list exact.. it is not a shoping list... it is just a guide to help you look....
and maybe you are looking in the rong places...
if you are looking for a smart intelectual person.. dont look in your local mall.. look in a coffee shop or a library...
if you are looking for a hard worker look for someone working..
etc......you get the idea.
2006-09-18 22:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be urself and get that "it" factor in you. It works like this: If ur a woman, u have to be feminine. If ur a man, u have to ba manly. If ur gay, then u have to be gay. whatever sexual orientation u r, if u cannot get that "it" factor in you, then sorry, would be hard to find a mate of ur dreams. And of course, at the end of it all, regardless of sexual orientation, what u project is what u attract ,and u get the kind of person u deserve.
2006-09-18 23:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't... i was in a relationship for 7 years, then broke up, within a week i met Mr.A for 3 months, we travelled and lived together, then he left for another country, we kept in touch everyday. 1 year later Mr.A flew half way round the Earth to see me. Before he arrived 1 month, i met Mr.B, we dated for 1 month (with Mr.A known), then when Mr.A arrived, i came back to him. For 3 days, broke up with Mr.A, i came back to Mr.B. But with Mr.B, things did not work out either. A week later, I changed to another job, double my income and double my work load, fed up with drama and decided to focus on my career for at least another 3 to 4 years before committing into any relationship. Then when i least suspected, 3 months after the whole drama thing above, i found my partner (after various attempt to avoid him and telling him my carreer plan). Now we live ok together for almost a year, things work out fine. so you never know, it's fun being alive, so keep looking out for it.
2006-09-19 00:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by hoang anh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up.Maybe the right guy for you is not yet born.Or you did not find the right person for you.Dont worry that person will just come someday.
2006-09-18 23:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry that's the way it is, i'm a pretty girl and it is hard for me to get a good boyfriend, you are a dude!! what did you expected...
2006-09-18 22:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by fireangel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boys are worth it. Sex is great. Just keep trying, but don't try too hard, because then you'll scare everyone away.
You'll eventually find Mr. Right, don't worry....
2006-09-19 17:49:18 · answer #9 · answered by yodasminion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying so hard nothing is more unattractive than desperation ...just chill a bit and let someone actively find you!
2006-09-18 23:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by Bearable 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋