Im talking to this girl online that i haved like for like foreever and i start getting hiper and and i start staing stupid stupid crap....and then i appologized, then i said something like " sorry its that when i talk to you my spirit gets lifed" - somtin like that , and instead of plaing it cool i start appologizing arghghghgodahjkdjhlfsh. The Hell is wrong with me- please help me in this situation.... what the hell do i do tomorrow?
2006-09-18 15:46:17 · 21 answers · asked by jrivera_e17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think the best way to play it cool tomorrow is to not mention your past slip. Don't get all nervous and just play like nothing happened. If she brings it up, just be flip and say something like "yeah, that was wierd.. I don't know what I was going on about." Just play it cool.
The thing is to be interested in what she has to say and try to be interesting back. Persistance sometimes pays. My husband dogged me for 3 years before I agreed to date him. We were friends and talked all the time.
2006-09-18 15:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by SAHM3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the "stupid crap" you said. It might not have been as stupid as you think. What made you start apologizing? Was it her reaction or your predicting how she might react.
First, relax. You're probably imagining things are worse than they really are. Secondly, let her make the next move, if she hasn't already responded. What you do next depends on how she responds. In the interim, no more apologizing. You might make her think of something she hadn't thought of before.
2006-09-18 22:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by all1g8r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just honestly explain that you aren't the sharpest knife in the drawer (she probably already knows that), and that you will try harder. She will likely be very impressed that you had the intellectual capacity to recognize you were droning on like a buffoon.
2006-09-18 22:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by Robert M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be you, because that is the guy she will like. I think you need to move past this. Move on and pretend it never happened. Stop being stupid around her and be smart and nice. She will like that much better.
2006-09-18 22:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bless your heart. I hope she is good enough for you. You may need to learn to laugh at yourself. My husband sometimes get a little hyper and misspeaks. Then he gets flustered and says something cheesy. I think it's adorable. We both laugh when it happens. You'll be okay Sweetie.
2006-09-18 22:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by Who the heck is Bobby? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry. breath...look up wait for the sky not to fall and breath easyer knowing yer alive shes alive and in time maybe the screen wont be inbetween u two...and get some meds for yer ummm "problem" like xanax it helps calm ya down.
2006-09-18 22:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by frostedjar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're nervous, its natural just explain to her that you are nervous about talking to her because you find her so attractive, she'll be like 'awwwwwwwwww' and go from there, because once someone knows your nervous you can usually operate better
Good luck man!
2006-09-18 22:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by HL2k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. If she really likes you, she'll find your awkwardness cute. If she doesn't really like you, it's not going to matter how smooth you are..it's not going to help. Just pretend like nothing happened. If you try to explain it or anything, you're just going to feel even worse !
2006-09-18 22:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. First of all, try to calm down. Just a little. Being yourself is great, but maybe you regret what you said.
And tomorrow...do NOTHING. Just try to relax and be natural.
2006-09-19 00:09:41 · answer #9 · answered by Rabid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like the girl, keep trying, how about just ask her out, you'll find out real quick if she's interested. if she has any sense she can probably read you and know that she makes you nervous which should flatter her knowing that she affects you that way, just ask her out dude!!!!
2006-09-18 22:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋