About two weeks ago I did something that I am not proud of. I live with my mother and my brother. A week ago, for some strange reason my mother decided to try something new for lunch, “Mountain Oysters”. I thought they were some kind of oysters, but they did not seemed like oysters at all, they just looked like big oval white balls, about the size of two softballs. Anyway, when she told us that they were bull testicles….first I was shocked, then started laughing. My brother was just staring at them with a serious face. But then I noticed that my brother begin to blush, and I could not help but to laugh uncontrollable at him, and my mother too. Then she left to do some more shopping. First I was joking with him about the oysters, then got courage and picked up one of the “oysters” to embarrassed him even more. THEN I got a little carried away and without thinking just throw the “ball” very hard into his balls!!! He doubled over to his knees and then fell to the side, his face became pale, he was down for more than five minutes, and the sight of him holding his balls with the big ball just next to him was too much for me, and I laughed so hard that I had tears in my eyes! He then got up, and was real mad, and just locked himself in his room. He never told my mother, I guess he was too embarrassed. He did not eat the oysters, lol.
I have been asking for his forgiveness but he do speak to me and do not even look at me!, my mother suspects that something is wrong. What can I do?
2006-09-18 15:46:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
We all do stupid things once in a while. But to laugh at someone in pain is a pretty big thing. You must have a cruel streak to want to tease him, then hurt him, then laugh at him.
You should tell your mother what you did. Ask her to talk to him. But you should be punished. This is more of a big deal than you seem to think. Your brother probably knows you are not sorry. That's why you used "lol" in your question. You should try to be a kinder person so that you don't grow up to be heartless.
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2006-09-18 22:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, never hit a boy/guy there again. My son in first grade got kicked there by a little girl that thought it was funny to see a little boy hit the ground. He ended up having surgery not a year later because of the damage it caused. Now he only has one functional testicle, not to mention being put to sleep and being cut on. Let other girls know this little known fact. Second, Write him a letter. Confess to your wrong doing and make him understand that at the time you didn't realize how bad it could hurt him and that you do love him very much and it is killing you that he wont talk to you. His feelings are very hurt.
2006-09-18 22:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did more than cause him physical pain, you caused him to be humiliated and that pain lasts a lot longer.
You need to continue to try to mend things, It may help to write out an apology and let him know you pretty much acted like a jerk and wish it hadn't happened. Planning something he really enjoys might help as well.
You probably don't want to hear this, but you should tell your mom and ask for help in making things right. Your brother didn't rat you out so you really owe it to him to come clean yourself.
He should eventually get over this but you have to be patient. And I suspect next time you'll be more careful. And you'd better hope your brother isn't into revenge.
Everyone does stupid stuff from time to time. What matters is learning from it and trying to make amends.
2006-09-18 23:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew how old both of you are. It's just a playful thing between siblings. I am touched that you are so sensitive about it- reminds me of me. He will get over it. You meant no harm as I would have laughed too. What a funny thing. He sounds like he is a young teenager and very sensitive to things at that age. Give him a hug then let him get over it. It years to come you will both laugh at the silliness.
2006-09-18 22:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by To Be 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend that you see if you can become a writer for the Onion Radio News. That's hilarious. Sorry for your brother who will have to look back to laugh. We can all enjoy this much earlier than he.
Pasted the link below in case you decide to do the writer gig.
2006-09-18 22:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by detecting_it 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to ask for his forgiveness. Buy him a little gift.. (but not a ball,...hahah ) Good Luck!
2006-09-18 22:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by noneofyourbizwax 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you was having a ball. as for your brother, always protect your nuts!..its a squirrel thing
2006-09-18 23:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did you ask this question 10 times?
Fun chick? You don't sound like much fun to me.
I have reported you for abuse.
2006-09-18 23:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by fresh2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apologize over and over again. Admit to him that you went to far and tell him that you love him and you are really really sorry.
Good LUCK!
2006-09-18 22:54:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋