were both 18 and virgins and i guess were just too timid to go all the way so weve been dry humping.. but, without religious opinions PLEASE, does that mean we should think about sex?
2006-09-18 15:27:36 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
a) duh i will use condoms
b) we already have done everything but sex.. that is why i am asking.. since i am a virgin i want to know how it usually goes.
2006-09-18 15:32:20 · update #1
you'll know when you are ready, with all religous out the door. you will know, make sure you talk about it, and you are both ready to try...be safe if you are...you can never wait to long thought...
2006-09-18 15:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by spudisashorty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope. You want to be his best friend forever? Then wait until you're married. It is a known fact that if you wait you will trust each other more once you get married if you don't have sex before marriage. You've done so well not having intercourse, hang in there until you get married. If you give in now, especially after holding out for so long you will with out a doubt bring a certain amount of guilt into the relationship. And once you're married you will have in the back of you're mind a little bit of mis-trust. You know we did it maybe he'll do it with some one else. And those thoughts are well founded, statistics show that people who have sex before marriage are more likely to cheat on their spouses. Then there is always the chance that you two will break up (it happens) and not get married what then. You find another guy and wouldn't it be great if he were the first and only. Too late now.
Hang in there until you get married.
2006-09-18 15:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a guy who answers this question the answer is ABSOLUTELY....As a girl answering this question, the answer is, Is dry humping enough...You see, in the ocean it is impossible to Dry Hump as the water is wet.....I understand that humans, once they start having sex, oral or otherwise, they can't get enough....So, if you are prepared to want to have sex 7-10 times a week for the rest of your life, go for it, Otherwise Dry Hump and oral pleasures only... That's what's up in the ocean
2006-09-18 15:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by sharkman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really up to you, if you both feel that you are ready, you are ready. Make sure that both of you want to do it and it will be okay. Remember that STDs and babies can come from sex, so at least do it safe. 18 in my mind is old but that is because people are having sex at 14 and younger now.
2006-09-18 15:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a guess on this one - if you are dry-humping, you are already thinking about sex. You certainly aren't doing that for the cardio-vascular excercise.
So, with the obvious aside, what are you really asking?
2006-09-18 15:32:10 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready then don't. It sounds like you might be ready.. since you do, dry hump... and you're 18.. You should consider sex only if you want to!
Use a condom!
2006-09-18 15:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Dex's Gal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you ready for a baby? My opinion is when you have sex you are saying that you are ready for any repercussions that come with it, including but not limited to pregnancy and disease. Once you give up your virginity you can never get it back. Are you sure that is what you want to do?
2006-09-18 15:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by rustygrapevineyard 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should understand sex and all the repercussions involved in it before thinking about it.
It can be the most amazing life altering experience, yet it can alter ones life in a way that can't really be understood by those who haven't experienced it.
BE SAFE and HAVE FUN!!
2006-09-18 15:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Blanket response incoming:
Nuthin' to it but ta do it! Now that I got that out of the way....
Actually, if you really want to have sex, I'm sure you will regardless of whatever advice we give you.
Just use protection kiddies!
Kiddies having kiddies = ruined dreams.
2006-09-18 15:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Rivrav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that if you need to ask the question means you're not ready for sex.
2006-09-18 15:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by Nadine G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋