Im 14 now, and a girl... I know im going through puberty, and growing up and all of that. I noticed something though. I keep getting sexual feelings. Its like a tingly feeling in my stomach & down there. I dont like it, it makes me very uncomfortable, and i want it to go away, how can i make it go away?
2006-09-18 15:14:39 · 20 answers · asked by cluelessclumsyblonde 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you want to make it go away, focus on something non-sexual, like pancakes, homework, or why cartoons are stupid. It will be hard, but eventually you'll figure it out. I would not advise masturbating (playing with yourself) because it may lead you to want to have sex, which no 14 year old is ready for.
2006-09-18 15:46:55 · answer #1 · answered by mminuyasha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
On the off-chance that you're not some sicko pervert asking this question, I'll answer it. Don't worry about it. You are indeed in puberty at that age and those are normal feelings to be having. Don't let them bother you, but at the same time, don't feel that you have to become sexually active just because you have those feelings.
Sex is for mature people who can handle the emotional and physical aspects of it -- not to mention that NOTHING can wreck a sharp young girl's life like an unplanned pregnancy or a sexually transmitted disease. So try to roll with the wacky new feelings and don't go out getting involved with boys. Keep your self-respect and wait until you're an adult. Good luck!
2006-09-18 15:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by shoeless356 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I went to Catholic school for 10 years and I remeber feeling exactly like that. It took me a long time to just be cool with it. My advice is to not do anything nasty with anyone (for at LEAST a few more years :) ). Remember that ANYTHING that involves an orafice and genitals is sex. Lock your room at night, buy some naughty magazines and be comfortable in your own body. If you don't find a release I promise you'll go batty one way or another. Remember, it's not bad, just confusing.
2006-09-18 15:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Cuit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you get older. I couldn't keep my hands out of my pants when I was your age. It is hard I know but you must realize that it is normal and every other normal girl goes through it too. I say enjoy it. I almost lost my entire sex drive because of medications and it is much worse than having an overactive one. In time it will calm, but until then, try to get a hobby or something.
2006-09-18 15:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well feeling like that is normal and you'll going to get like that if you like it or not because thats part of life but the best thing to do when you get like that is to think about something thats not dealing with sexual stuff or do something to occupy your mind and when you occupy your mind believe me that feeling goes away.GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-18 15:19:59 · answer #5 · answered by Cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when I was your age I watched lots of Horror movies to make sexual feelings go away.
The gorry ones work the best...
the only problem is that at my age now, i'm completely obsessed with sex....
2006-09-18 15:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal and healthy to feel like that. You don't need to be ashamed. You should embrace your sexuality as a part of you.
2006-09-18 15:20:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married. Ruins ur sex drive.
But seriously, u have to find something else to concentrate on. i used sports and cold showers. I also became more interested in my spirtual growth. this encourages abstinance from most everything physical. Find a good meditation, Bible study or yoga group.
2006-09-18 15:19:15 · answer #8 · answered by kimann_64 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, you have a few options. You can ignore it and hope it goes away, or you can masterbate and make it go away for a little while.
2006-09-18 15:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by robbet03 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try by keeping your mind on other things or activities. As long as your mind is preoccupied with something all the time you should be ok.
2006-09-18 15:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by newhope_26 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋