Maybe it is the Black men clinging to the White women
2006-09-18 15:11:09
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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I think it is a couple of things. First, let me say that i am white, but am far from racist. I think it is a "fear" thing. What I mean by that, is that in our society, we are urged to fear blacks due to the portrayal of them in the media. Every time a black person is mentionedon on t.v., it is related to crime, drugs, gangs, etc. It is a fact that the majority of women prefer a man that is "scary", than say a computer programmer. Second, I think that women have gotten more comfortable in their association with black men. 20 years ago, it was unheard of to have a black family living in a white neighborhood, or have their children attend a predominitely white school. Now it is not uncommon for schools and neighboorhoods to be racially diversed. The more time you spend with someone, the more you are inclined not to see any differences in them and potentially be interested in them as a human being. hope this helps!!
2006-09-18 22:25:52
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answered by my_escalade_n_me 1
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I know this, any women who targets a man simply because he is Black is not genuine. She is looking for an EXPERIENCE based on STEREOTYPE, and when this is the case, both parties are usually DISSAPOINTED. I've noticed that there are quite a few White women raising mixed babies by themselves these days. That says something in and of itself. What ever it was they thought you Black men had, they didn't find it.
It's ignorent to go after someone based on race; just as it is ignorent to judge someone based on race. Intellegent people know this. If you met someone and you truly fall in love and the person happen to be of a different race, well that's fine.
Beware of people who target you because you are "a Black Man", That person lives on fantasy Island! Any woman who has been with both Black and White knows that what they say about the Black man is not true of ALL Black men. There are BIG and small men in ALL races,(If you know what I mean).
Even if I were a man who just wanted to play around, I wouldn't want someone to single me out based on my race. I wouldn't feel flattered because someone wanted to be with me just because I was Black. I would be insulted.
2006-09-18 23:18:35
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answered by Cookie 1
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This questions smacks of stereotyping more than it does of racism. As a white woman I have dated white men and black men. I was attracted to them because of personality and the cuteness factor :) - not skin color or penis size (those stories are not always true ya know). BTW - I am neither fat nor a bleached blonde, and only trash would imply that a black man can't get a decent white woman.
2006-09-18 22:18:29
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answered by Who the heck is Bobby? 3
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Well......there is a fine line there. I'm a white woman myself and WAS in a 10 year relationship with a black man and now we're just friends because we just couldn't settle our differences.. I've seen some very nice looking white men out there that I wouldn't mind dating or even having a relationship with. Why would I just limit myself to black men! I WOULDN'T!
So the answer to your question to me has nothing to do with the color of their skin. You have your good, bad, and the ugly in all races. If you feel like that, I'd like to question the TYPE of women of whom your dealing with!!
2006-09-18 22:37:06
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answered by Anonymous
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Did you know that statistically, White men rape Black women 400% more than Black men rape White women. I guess it's because Black men don't HAVE to rape because White women throw themselves at Black men, there are different motives for the types of White women who do this, but they still have motive!
2006-09-19 22:53:51
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answered by Anonymous
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Really? I don't know any women that prefer black guys over white men.
2006-09-19 01:46:26
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answered by Celeste A 2
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I don't cling to black men...yes, some are very good looking but I don't cling to ANY man......and on here I always hear that its the other way around, black men clinging to white women...but then again, you can't trust what you hear on here.
2006-09-18 22:10:17
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answered by Danielle 1
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I have no idea but if you find out can you tell me. Because men are men and all men have a penis that range from very tiny to very very big. So there is no difference in the sex. Only differences I see is the way they are being treated, and the skin color.
2006-09-18 22:10:51
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answered by sweetlee725 2
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The newer trend that is emerging is black women with white men the white women black men thing is obsolete....and its their business anyway.
2006-09-18 22:12:21
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answered by aminuts 4
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