And all of my friends have Boyfriends or girlfriends.... so we don't really hang like we used to... some times I feel so lonely. I've been tying to tell this to my friends.... but they won't listen!!! What can I do? What can I tell them?
2006-09-18 14:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
that's another problem... I'm really shy! It's not very easy for me to make friends.... I went to this dance class about a month ago... and I just stod there and look like an idiot.... and in the second class all the girls.... just stared at me and laughed.... so I'm not going though that again!
2006-09-18 14:50:06 · update #1
I met my husband my sophmore year and dated him all through highschool. A lot of my friends didn't have b/f's so I would bring my b/f along and he bacame friends with all of my friends. However this only workes well when the couples are paying attention to the whole group and not just each other. If this doesn't work try making a girls day/night once a week or two, no boy allowed. You could also just tell your friends flat out how you feel. If they want to keep your friendship they will listen. If they don't you might be better off. I have been out of highschool for 5 yrs and still talk to my friends from highschool. If I only paid attention to my b/f in highschool, I wouldnt' have any friends. Just tell them, hopefully they will listen. Good luck.
I was very shy in school, there really is no way around it. Give your friends you have a chance by letting them know how you feel before you give up. Also, it's not the end of the world if you don't have friends. In college there are no more clicks, everyone gets along better. I found it easier to get to know people. Highschool is not the only time to make friends. When I got a job that helped me. It gave me stength, i worked in a petstore and once I started learning things and customers asked me questions that I knew the answer to it made me feel more important and less anxious about myself because i knew what I was talking about.
2006-09-18 14:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Animal lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to you parents about getting involved in sports and outside activities. Right now there is fall soccer and cheerleading. There is also girl scouts and dance. Through these you can meet new friends. If its a matter of cost maybe you can help earn some of the money.
2006-09-18 14:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by erinjl123456 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be proactive about inviting your friends or organizing parties/events. Join a sports club/team. Consider dance lessons and crafts. Finally, volunteer or take a class at a local community college.
2006-09-18 14:48:44 · answer #3 · answered by curious1223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the Girl Scouts and make new friends.
2006-09-18 14:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a myspace account and build up your friend base. or try hanging out with you're friends and their others, it's fun being in a group even if you're the only single one - take it from someone who is perpetually single. (it's all we got man!)
2006-09-18 14:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by yp_charles_hartford 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to meet more friends maybe u could consider going to public school or joining activities where you could meet more people!
2006-09-18 14:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u just go to a regular school omg why would u homeschool! thats so boring go to regular sckool hun u'll like it better! and get a boyfriend.
2006-09-18 15:07:24 · answer #7 · answered by we_belong_2gether07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make u mom put u in public skewl so u can meet people, and get urself a bf so u can fit in ;)
2006-09-18 14:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got several friends who are home schooled what they do is they join the Y and do stuff like that..............i don't have a boyfriend either............
2006-09-18 14:45:20 · answer #9 · answered by N² 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to start being more open and willing to talk to people or you will continue to be alone . . .
2006-09-18 15:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by ♥LoisLane♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋