I go to an all girl's college, and there was this girl I liked a lot, and I was trying to talk to her. But this other girl stepped in and basically stomped on my game.
That's not my issue. My issue is, that the girl in question is straight. Has been straight since she got here. Is so straight, that not a month ago (before the girl she is now dating got here) was talking about how she could never be with a girl, and didn't like ----- (insert word here).
Is so straight, she still has a boyfriend back home, and just went home to see him (and screw him) last weekend.
Tell me something is wrong this picture, please. I feel like she's only using this other girl to get what's available, but as soon as she leaves, it will all over. I can't stand it when girls like this mess it up for those of us who REALLY are gay/bi. Am I wrong for being mad?
2006-09-18 14:22:06 · 11 answers · asked by Agent Double EL 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Let that situation play out by itself. You're not going to come across well explaining to the one you like she's being used. Let someone else. She'll figure it out. So, back away for a while. You have no claims or rights, it's simply the way of life. Deal. And, yeah, manipulative people are a real pisser, best to learn to spot 'em while you're young.
2006-09-18 15:01:42 · answer #1 · answered by Alex62 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like someone said she's a closet les... and is confused probably....I dont know how the whole gay thing works but that's what it sounds like she just wants something for the time being I guess...Maybe she's just curious
2006-09-18 16:51:19 · answer #2 · answered by mstiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what that other *****'s problem is, but I'd say try again.
Shakespeare said something about how "the lady doth protest too much." That situation may be in play here.
2006-09-18 14:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya know if she went that far out of her way to convince you that she's straight....how far out did she go to convince herself??
Me thinks the lady doth protest tooooo much
2006-09-18 15:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by bopddbop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that girl is a closet lesbian. And who's to say she's going home to screw her boyfriend? You wouldnt know that unless you were there.
2006-09-18 14:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by c_jayo6 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on sugar. You don't need to concentrate on people like her. She's probably just really confused, or just does not like you and is a bad liar.
2006-09-18 15:54:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong, that skank ho just needs to stop pretending and get her dick more often. dont worry i hate that shiz too....i hated when being gay/bi was a "trend" it sucked! but you do have a right to be mad. think about it!
2006-09-18 14:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by jroesyhnuaa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she was trying to convince herself she was straight.
2006-09-18 14:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh, the whole gay/bi thing confuses me. I won't ever understand it.
2006-09-18 14:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes your wrong . get over it .
2006-09-18 14:25:34 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas H 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋