he says he ws trying to set up his friend .. but co worker was dating someone at the time ..we have a son together and dont want to hurt son. doi leave him. any suggestions..
2006-09-18 14:04:59 · 32 answers · asked by cutiepatutie0812 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't believe that (for his friend) for a second. He needs to clean up his act or you should leave. No ifs, ands or butts. (Sorry-bad pun there).
2006-09-18 14:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know that he is lying. He is not even my husband and I Know he is lying. That like if I gave oral sex to someone and my hubby caught me; So I say, "My sister thought he was so fine and she really likes him. I was just doing her a favor..doing it all on her behalf...just passing along a message." What happen to the good old days when you just gave the people phone numbers to call so they could talk to the other person and set a date if they still wanted to see what the person looked like. Your husband would even have been better off just taking a picture of her dressed decently. Then, I would buy his story more than I do right now. Do not end your marriage or leave just yet. You do not have enough hard evidence that he is cheating or lying. Just pay attention to things. You do not have to put up with adultery trying not to hurt your son though. A child deserves to live in a home not a house. In a house, there is no real love or worm feelings--just a roof and four walls. A home is a place of love and positive emotions and positive and healthy (non-adulterous) relationships. You can separate from your husband, but your child will still have a home--maybe two, but as long as you and the father remain friends.....
2006-09-18 14:35:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you need to consider your feelings for him, if you were already looking for an excuse to leave him.. well just go ahead.
however when in the relationship of marriage one looks for reasons to keep it going not to break it up. so give him a chance. tell him about it.. but not in anger only when you can manage to be in a better frame of mind. To Tease him about it would be the best way to broach the subject.. so he knows that you know and subtly slip it in that you would react very strongly if he strayed... so he get the message ..and you come across as the understanding partner AND he's on probation
2006-09-19 04:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by bluecatdrake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know your hubby better than anyone a pic on cell i think it wrong if any body pic should be on it it should be yours i cannot say leave him but,be careful cause love hurts the bible say when a man finds a wife he find a good thing,prey
2006-09-18 14:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by ttee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably lying to you. It sounds like a cover up to me. But that doesn't mean that he is cheating either. He could have just been overly flirting with her. I would be pissed, but I don't know if I would leave him for it. Especially if you have a child together. Talk to him about it, check up on him, go to the girl yourself and ask her.
2006-09-18 14:25:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clues to a cheater:
He is buying new clothes and he doesnt really need them, especially new underwear.
He is giving you less money to pay bills or grocery shop with.
He stays out later on weekends or doesnt come home at all on some nites.
He wont let you check his cell phone anymore.
He ALWAYS accuses you of cheating on him.
2006-09-18 14:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
His answer is bullshit! Only you can decide what to do about leaving him. I would recommend that you explore this further to see if he has been cheating on you with another woman before you decide to leave. Pictures are one thing cheating is another. If it's just pictures I wouldn't divorced him over that but if its more than that you need to know now. Good Luck!
2006-09-18 14:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by Cashmere621 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember when your a kid and your mom found something she shouldn't have in you room.what did you say . that's not mine it's a friends.Same thing here. His friend has a cell right. he could of sent them along and deleted it. So my guess is it was for his viewing pleasure.
can't really tell you what to do with your relationship . But it seems like he needs to stop lying .
2006-09-18 14:09:58 · answer #8 · answered by jassy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't walk out the door tonight - but I would want some straight answers. If I didn't get them...he would be out the door. No one tries to get a date for his friend by showing parts of the woman. Please...they are for him. He better fess up or you are in a long haul of deception.
2006-09-18 14:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow,
Us your gut feeling! Does he make you happy? can you trust him - like has he done anything in the past to warrant your suspiscions? Your happiness is the main goal in life. Your son will be happy as long as you are. If you don't trust him, for whatever reason, you shouldn't be with him.
Good luck!
2006-09-18 14:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋