why are women so selective in their bed partners?

Question

women are so selective in their bed partners. men will jump on anything. it used to be where women were submissive and do what they're told. since women's lib, women have been derilict in their duties as lovers, mothers, and homemakers. there are real men out there who need attention to survive-just as plants need water. if you really follow the day in the life of a woman in these days you can see they're just as nasty as men-just look at girls gone wild? and don't tell me those girls were forced or pushed into doing those things, because they were'nt-they acted on their own behavior-and the fact that they were boozed up made them show their true colors; so why are the women in the working world so afraid to act out their carnal desires? why can't they be like men and have relations with the first they see-like they want to. if they want the same rights as men then they ought share the same uninhibited lust as men

Answer 1

It has nothing to do with the feminist movement or anything like that. It has to do with reproduction. Women are generally more selective because they don't want to get pregnant by someone who would be a bad person to father their child. This is a concept of evolutionary psychology. Men are more interested in procreating in any possible way since they don't absolutely HAVE to help out in raising the child. The woman is stuck for at least 9 months with pregnancy and probably stuck raising the child as well.

By the way, not all men have uninhibited lust. Some of them are classy and not the trashy type that will have sex with whatever walks by. I am a woman and I am very open sexually and and im not afraid to express myself. That doesn't mean that I am interested in having sex with anything with a penis.

Answer 2

The same way it innate in Male to spread his seed, go forth and be fruitful, it is also innate in the Female to seek out the "leader of the pack".

Simply because some groups of females flock together and behave in an imprudent manner does not mean that the majority of women would if they had a drink or two in them.

It sounds like you are just looking for loose women. Unfortunately, while they may be fun for a little while, who wants to bring "the village bicycle" (the girl everyone in town has ridden) home to meet the parents?

You are apparently young right now, and your tastes and desires will change with time. Just be careful while you are out there looking for loose women to sow your wild seeds with that you don't walk away with something more than you expected from the tryst, such as a child or AIDS. Use protection. Right now you are looking for sex without responsibility. And there are women out there that can satisfy that, but don't look for them in the work place, or where you regularly socialize. My mother always said "don't sh*t where you eat". If you are going to be building a rep as a "sleep around" guy, don't do it in places where you might have to go back and socialize.

LOL, I like that, in the old days women used to be submissive and do what they were told!!! If only you knew!!!

If too many men chose to think like you, it would only continue to promote the very things you are denigrating! Look at how many women are on welfare raising babies on their own. Mothers! Homemakers! Many are too busy trying to feed and cloth children they shouldn't have had to raise on their own.

Men and women use their brains in different ways. What is important to a woman is worlds apart from what is important to a man. Girls Gone Wild is not something you should be basing the whole female species on.

Answer 3

I think you have missed the point entirely!! If, you have done any research on woman over the past 1000 years or better yet the last 100 years you will see that our fight for equal rights has nothing to do with our lack of sex drive. Our equal rights has more to do with our existence on this earth and I don't mean on our backs. In the 13th century horses had more say than females did. In the 14th century woman were only inches above an Ottoman ( FYI, that's a foot stool)! In the 15th and 16th century woman could wear what every they wanted as long as it was designed, created and purchased by a man. In the 17th and 18th centuries woman who spoke out were considered ugly and vulgar. You could beat a woman to death as long as you never raised a hand to your animals. I suppose I could go on but you get the picture. Just because we want to live a life we have the right to live you expect us to become whores? We as woman don't want to take away your given right to be a man but, don't think for one second the reason your not getting out of US what you feel we should be giving you isn't in direct correlation with your disgusting motivations. Woman can, will, and are just as uninhibited as men and the reason we are selective is because we don't want to meet someone like YOU! Now, with that said, I suppose your clicking your tongue and calling me every name in the book! It is just this reason woman have had such a difficult time escaping what can only be called slavery and bondage. We work as hard as you do.(Sometimes harder) We bleed just like you do.(Sometimes more than we care to.) We breath air into our lungs just like you do.( Sometimes a bit more labored) We choose our partners carefully just like you. (Sometimes with more reason then you do)
Before you decide to critique woman for what we don't do for you, why not think about what men and woman can do for each other. You will be pleasantly surprised if you would stop thinking about yourself and begin thinking about what you can do for others. When someone is happy with what they are receiving they tend to reciprocate more readily.

Answer 4

That is the nature of women and hearkens back to survival of the species. The females would choose males who would protect and provide for her offspring the best. Not a very women's lib view but it all goes back to our beginnings. However males were more geared to quantity and in order to carry on with the species would mate with more than one female.
However you are so right...we should have gotten beyond mere physiology and survival of the species. Now it is more in the realm of what is socially acceptable behavior and for better or worse, it is more socially acceptable for men to play around than it is for women...but trust me there are a lot of women out there with healthy sexual appetites!

Answer 5

Anthro poloigists believe this is due to men wanting to spread their genes, while woman, who generally, mated with only one mate per year, wanted the best. The strongest men had more mates and got the pick. Woman, while pregnant, needed someone who could both provide and protect. The weaker men mated with women the stronger men did not want.

Answer 6

They are selective because they have to carry around a baby and feed it for 9 months at least and more if they don't feel like killing babies. That is a LOT of time. Males can screw and leave. Therefore, evolution has programmed women right. They should be selective.

Combine my answer with the one above mine = about right.

Answer 7

biology
men are driven to spread genes as widely as posible, women are driven to seek out the best genes
social conditioning
women are held to a different standard, stud is a compliment Slu# is an insult, meen the same thing

Answer 8

Because we can be. We don't need men, we are self sufficient, but can choose a man who entertains us. It's a great time to be a woman.

Answer 9

Ummm

Your "Details" contradict your question.

Both women & men: some are selective, some take all "comers"!
(Sorry for the pun. Couldn't be helped.)

Answer 10

uh, if women don't want u its soemthign wrong with u not them.