I've been married for twelve years and I still don't understand women.Just when you think you have got something figured out they change the rules on you.Can someone please explain this to me.
2006-09-18 13:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We are easy creatures to understand, you guys just don't listen! What do we need? We need to be loved. We need affection. We need to know that you understand our priorities, and you make them your own. If we are having a bad day, we want you to ask us about it...and then LISTEN when we tell you about it.
We need a kiss and a hug. We need you to hold our hand. After 12 years of marriage, we want you to look at us like you did the first moment that you realized that you loved us.
2006-09-18 13:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read What Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew About Marriage by James Dobson
2006-09-19 01:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by whiteparrot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you hun, but women are constantly changing. It's in our nature and in essence goes along with the flows of our hormones and emotions. Just have paitience and keep trying. You'll never fully understand, nor will women ever fully understand themselves, but you can at least try.
2006-09-18 20:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well have asked what the meaning of life is. That's our nature. If you understand that, you've made some real progress!
2006-09-18 21:24:57 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If women don't change now and then especially married women, we get labeled "Boaring". Be patient and understanding.
2006-09-18 20:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by zeena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, no one can, man has been trying to answer that since he first got layed. Women are fascinating creatures.
2006-09-18 20:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by TheAnimaL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have different moods and do different things for different reasons. They play lots of games. I know because I am one.
2006-09-18 20:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by sillygirl227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best strategy - Go with the flow
2006-09-18 20:51:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it gets boring if everyone knows all the rules,, just think of it as keeping the fire alive,, then it doesn't seem so frustrating!!!
2006-09-18 20:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by B V 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry. I think it's you.
Best case scenario, you're not reading the signs.
Worse case scenario, you're not even listening.
2006-09-18 20:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋