I Am Kind Of Depressed...?

Question

I have been with my boyfriend since I was sixteen, I am twenty-four now. Three months ago I went to visit my older sister and her family, who moved to a different country three years ago.

I returned just recently. I have no proof really, but what my younger sister said, and what I feel to be true, but I think he cheated on me while I was gone. My younger sister told me yesterday she saw him kissing another guy Wednesday outside by the nearby lake... I know I can trust her... But I just do not want to believe...

Answer 1

You need to find out the truth from him before you make any decisions. However the first thing he may do is deny it, but body language doesn't. Did your younger sister tell you what kind of kiss it was, maybe it was just a friendly kiss.

Answer 2

Sorry you are feeling depressed and I can understand why however you do have to aire on the side of caution here as what one person saw may be not what they think.
Has he ever done anything like this before? Is he acting odd with you? Did you keep in regular contact whilst away? Are questions you need to think about first.
I have always been a believer of gut instinct and if you feel that things are not right then you must ask the person concerned. Ask him since you have been back things do not feel the same and does he have anything he wants to tell you? This way you are not jumping the gun before fired and giving him a chance to come clean if there is anything.
Good luck

Answer 3

I think you already know the answer but are afraid to say it! It sounds like you are afraid of being on your own as this is something that you have never experienced. You need to have it out with him and take it from there. If the worst happens and you do split up, look at it as a positive thing and catch up on all the fun you have missed as a single person. There is a saying, 'whats for you won't go passed you' and there may be something better waiting for you. Good luck.

Answer 4

Wow ummm....I would confront your boyfriend and if he acts all weird I think you should believe what your sister said...But I also think you should just trust your sister..But it also could be a misunderstanding like she "thought" she saw him kissing another girl or she saw a person who sort of looks like him kissing another girl....But I still go with believing your sister

Answer 5

of course you don't want to believe. but you have to face the facts. you've been cheated on. doesn't mean you aren't worth being with. doesn't mean you aren't attractive. doesn't mean you're not a great person.

however, it does mean that your bf is not a great person.

sorry this had to happen to you. but it's not the end of the world.

dump him and find a bf that treats you like a prince.

Answer 6

well if he's been seen kissing another guy, that could be a sign that he is maybe a gay? I dont know, I'm not a doctor or anything like?

Answer 7

Are you a guy?? if you are chuck the slimball out he should treat you with more respect.
If you a lady, then maybee you should help him come out, and be good friends with him afterwards.
He should give you more respect than this though¡
Talk about it with him *:)

Answer 8

the best way to settle this is to get your sister,boyfriend and the guy that your boyfriend kissed, and ask what is going. and see what happens.

Answer 9

Confront him with your worries, get the answers you need off him and not other people as much as you trust them.

Answer 10

dont be dipressed if he cheated on u he will get perinoid and he will ask were u r going and who u hang out with.ok and dont worry there r more dicks out there;)