what should I do?
2006-09-18 13:28:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, bf is boyfriend...
2006-09-18 13:44:24 · update #1
What should you do? A man married to a woman that takes weekend trips with her boyfriend SHOULD divorce. But, what you WILL do is probably nothing. For some unknowable reason, you are living a silly x rated relationship. So, enjoy thinking about your wife sleeping with her boyfriend.
2006-09-18 13:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does your wife have a bf? do you have a gf? this is some whacked out marriage....It is time for a DIVORCE! you don't truly have a marriage...get out...give Christianity a try and if you grow as a Christian...then you will find out what a marriage should be and perhaps you will become worthy enough to be blessed with marriage again! Or save this marriage and seek Christian Counseling now if you truly love this woman BY ALL MEANS SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE! MARRIAGE IF A GIFT FROM GOD! IT IS A JOB HE HAS GIVEN YOU! Get it together! Be thou an example! Not just some sad excuse of an example of your environment...This world does not offer solutions to marriage...but God does...get off the computer and seek Christian Counseling today....HURRY!
2006-09-18 13:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume that in this instance "bf" means "best friend" and not "boy friend".
If it means "best friend", I think that you should discuss your insecurities with your wife so that she knows exactly how you feel. I also think that you should use her trip away as an opportunity to connect with friends that you haven't seen in a while, or do things that you enjoy but she doesn't. For example: my hubby likes golf and I hate it. So when I'm going out with my friends, he usually uses the free time to golf with buddies. Or if he plans a golf outing, I make plans to see my friends. It's healthy to have separate activities sometimes.
If "bf" means "boyfriend" then I think you need a lawyer.
2006-09-18 13:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you need marriage counseling.
You mean boyfriend as in a friend that is a male, I hope. If that's so, then it is okay to have a male friend, but not okay to go on a weekend trip with him when you're married and not invite your husband.
If this is her boyfriend romantically, then what are you doing still with her? If she is seeing him then you need to leave her because obviously she doesn't care about you or your feelings; if she did she wouldn't be interested in any other guy.
2006-09-18 13:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world does she have a boyfriend? She is married....there should not be a bf even in the picture. And NO she should not being going away with a bf, even if he is just a friend. No way I would not let them go.
And she should respect how you feel.
2006-09-18 13:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by pa_susie99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your WIFE doing with a bf any way. And Im hoping that means baby father. Because if it means boy friend then your crazy. And if she pisses a fit. Ask her why is it so important for you to go. Can you go?? And if she doesn't want you to go then yes there is something going on!!!!
2006-09-18 13:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he means Best Friend, Not boyfriend. So sit her down, and tell her how you feel about it. Be honest, and open, and just let her know that even though she isn't gone you already miss her. Maybe you can tag along! Ask! The worst thing she can say is no. Good luck
2006-09-18 13:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by zeena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife has a boyfriend than why are you upset that she wants to go away for the weekend.
See if your girlfriend is free that weekend.....it'll give you something to do while your wife is gone.
2006-09-18 13:46:00 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r ok with ur wife having a bf? if its an open marriage and u r upset maybe u should think about ur marriage
2006-09-18 13:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by cutiepatutie0812 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we are talking best friend, then by all means, there is no reason to be upset, assuming there have been no trust issues in the past.
If we are talking boyfriend, then there definitely should be a problem.
So, which one is it?
2006-09-18 13:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋