ok heres problem i was born in india 1 year ago i came here{ america} and i met my first cousin. he is 17 and me too. i met him after many years it makes me feel sad when i see him with girls{ he has too many gf's}. he is pretty smart guy with high g,p,a, outgoing, good looking and popular too. im not sure do i love him or do i feel jealous!!
2006-09-18 13:24:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's just a phase, you'll grow out of it. More and more girls feel this way toward their cousins, I think it's because you feel such a close connection with him. You are probably jealous but I don't think it's right if you act on any feelings you may think you have for him.
2006-09-18 13:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by searaydreams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find yourself.. there are different types of LOVE and NO THE KIND your sleeping or want your cousin. You need to find your own man, your own set of friends, you might be empty inside, you might even feel alone at times but you have to start your own life and understanding your place as in your family values.
2006-09-18 13:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you just want to make sure that these girls don't hurt him out of love of your own family.It sounds that he has really great qualities that any girl would want, but I suggest if these feelings go deeper than out of family honor you find one of his friends that has the same traits as him.Life is too difficult as a teenager without having a social taboo on top of it. Good luck.
2006-09-18 13:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by CandyCain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i in no way knew approximately 1st cousins bumped off all i knew the place that 1st cousins are your aunt/uncles little ones then 2d cousins are the infants of your cousins ,, yet ive in no way heard of 1st and 2d cousins bumped off that perplexing :S
2016-10-17 05:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is ok to be concerned about your cousin but any feelings beyond that is wrong...i have heard of people marrying though close kin and their children were deformed...i would just let him live his life and you live yours and do not let any other feelings you think you have get in the way of your relationship...this is morally wrong to my opinion....
2006-09-18 13:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u feel sad because u just meet himm and u want to spind time with him so don't worry about it.i hpe u feel more happy,he is ur cousin he will always be there for u.;)
2006-09-18 13:35:13 · answer #6 · answered by rick l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like ur first cousin? Thats just wrong! Be cool and people will like you!
2006-09-18 13:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're in the US, it's illegal I think to be hooking up with a first cousin.
2006-09-18 13:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are very jealous.
2006-09-18 13:29:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋