I'm 16 and i'm going on my 2nd kid. My kid on the way is mix with white and black but my dad is raceist. He said that he isn't going to except the kid as his grandchild i dont want him to expect the father of my baby but him. I want him to expect my kids father but the baby.
Also I dont know what to do about where to live someone help me please?
2006-09-18 13:16:49 · 9 answers · asked by ashley_kennedy15_1990 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Get your tubes tied!!! Put the children up for adoption to someone that can raise them in the right enviroment
2006-09-18 13:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the question is... is this a spite baby? or do you really care for this young man? hindsight is 20-20 ... unfortunately, you can not make anyone accept this child ... you will just have to deal with the situation you are in and not count on anyone being supportive ...since this is your second child out of wedlock, you obviously didn't learn your lesson from the first one ... perhaps you should consider what you are putting these children through before you get pregnant again ... you are affecting more lives than just your own and so far, its not a positive experience. you cannot change other peoples feelings just because you want them to ... we each make our own judgements based on our experiences and history
2006-09-18 20:30:15 · answer #2 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 16 with two kids, you need to keep your legs closed. I had my daughter at 23 and I thought I was too young. Her dad was your age when she was born and he has been "Johnny on the spot" as far as things she needs and wants ever since.My child is Korean-American. I can't say it couldn't work out but it is hard. As far as your dad is concerned, he may think twice about it once he holds the new child for the first time.
2006-09-18 20:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a home for someone in your condition? Do you have another relative or friends you can live with? I'm sorry about your father, some ppl care more about the color of the skin than whats under neath the skin.
2006-09-18 20:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by di12381 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man ur dad is an *** no affence he is ur dad he should always be behind u on all of ur desisions that is a perents job. go live with a friend for a few days and then try to talk to ur dad.hope u hav the best of luck and just remember ur father will allways love u and ur kids
2006-09-18 20:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by rick l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should marry the guy (yes I know generally 16 is young but once you have a baby I believe you count as being able to get married). you should tell your dad he has no choice, but that might get you in trouble so see a psychologist or get a lawyer.
2006-09-18 20:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's sad that your father is racist....it's too bad that it didn't die when slavery did huh?,but unfortunately,there are alot of people out there like that....does your father know that his blood runs through your children's veins?It is too bad that if he keeps this up..he will lose out on ALOT,not only in this child's life,but in your other child's and yours!...
2006-09-18 20:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by NaeNae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY ONCE YOU GO BLACK YOU NEVER GO BACK , WANTS WRONG YOU THAT UGLY .. NO WHITE GUY WANTS YOU ..AWW THAT POOR UGLY DEFORMED HALF BREED ..POOR DAD AND POOR MOM WHAT A SICK THING
WHY CAN'T THEY DO SOMETHING WITH PEOPLE LIKE YOU.
2006-09-18 20:27:21 · answer #8 · answered by www.thehunkofaguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try BIRTH CONTROL and you won't have to deal with this problem at all!!!
2006-09-18 20:20:01 · answer #9 · answered by lion75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋