I want divorce to my husband but he doesn't cooperate. This guy is also married. Is this true love or just a fling? Please comment on this.
2006-09-18 12:50:06 · 18 answers · asked by suri 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are married. The guy you want to be with is married too. This isn't true love, it's just two scummy people cheating on their spouses. By the way, you don't love the new guy more or less than your husband. You care only about yourself. Love can only be experienced by people mature enough to have empathy and compassion. I doubt you are capable of either emotion.
2006-09-18 13:06:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...your husband is some guy! If he has forgiven you and will keep you you're one blessed girl...Are you only 22 or have you been married for 22 years? If you are only 22...you need to follow your husband and forget this other guy! If you have been married for 22 years...you really have a great husband! You'd be a fool to leave him after forgiving you for such an idea! Marriage is a JOB...and it is God who you are working for...Save your marriage! Become a Christian with your husband and Serve God
with all your heart, soul and mind...be the best Christian ever! Be the best at staying married and get yourself away from those evil thoughts that will destroy you! If you leave your husband you will never be so blessed as if you had stayed with him!
2006-09-18 13:12:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you say you are a Christian leads me to believe that this is an important aspect of your life. Therefore I hope you realize the Christ called us to not be unequally yoked. Not to mention that the rest of this situation is equally as screwed up but to add completely different beliefs into the picture is just insanity. You have a choice: Stay with your husband as God would have you do and work on making it the best relationship you can or throwing away what God has ordained for your own selfish desires which will die over time.
2006-09-18 12:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by RedC. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not likely the merely right person to respond to this simply by fact i've got been the "OG" earlier, yet in spite of this in line with possibility i'm. the two way, i will supply you my user-friendly comments. Please understand that the OG would look as though he's suitable and which you're in love with him simply by fact he's consistently rescuing you from a difficulty of unhappiness some hours at a time. he's often there top once you want uplifting the main and you never have arguments with him in view which you do not see him adequate to get bored of him. in view which you're "stealing time" from the bondage of your at the instant unhappy marriage for some moments of delight, each and every 2d you have with him appears like a trip. save in mind which you do not would desire to debate money, costs or baby-subject concerns with him and disagree on how the relatives is administered, that are diverse the subject concerns that reason conflict and strife in a wedding ceremony. it fairly is the place we OGs recover from on the husbands - we are consistently constructive furnishings on your lifestyles and we dodge the negatives. in case you have been to head in with this OG and produce your luggage alongside (3 childrens from yet another guy), i could wager my entire mark downs account which you may promptly locate out how diverse the comparable conflicts you have with your husband could resurface with your knight in shining armor. With that being suggested, snap out of the delusion and understand what this OG fairly is - a marital complement to make you experience particular and desireable and wished via yet another guy lower back and not something greater. some human beings can use any such complement as an occasional break out from their reality and leap lower back devoid of having too caught up, even though evidently such as you at the instant are not a sort of human beings in view which you already love him. i could advise you positioned that on carry until eventually you're thoroughly finished with your marriage, one way or the different. merely right of success to you.
2016-12-15 10:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a fling.
Go to counseling. Don't break up your family and this other guy's family.
In the dark, all cats are grey.
2006-09-18 12:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by WendyD1999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell the hindu guy to stay at home until his head heals. Then take the bandage off and come and see you.
2006-09-18 12:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing with the hindu guy? Your married!!!!! Deal with one relationship first before you move on to another!!!
2006-09-18 12:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dare you even get close enough to somebody else to think that you might be in love with him..... shame on you.
I wouldn't cooperate with you either if I were your husband.
You might think you love this guy, but it might be just lust, you have to think this through very carefully.
2006-09-18 13:05:11 · answer #8 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to question it, it's not love. Don't ruin your marriage over a thing like that. Maybe you should try loving your husband more, try some new things.
2006-09-18 12:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by fergi909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is plain lust! After getting a few ***** the pair of you will drift away.Hindu families don't let divorces happen easily.
2006-09-18 14:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋