This girl called me ugly?

Question

This girl called me ugly, and now, I don't know why, it really got to me I have a very high confidence level, and I really don't know why this has gotten to me...

I do believe I'm pretty, and I know some other people do too, and you guys are really helpful, and I know for face, I'm beautiful on the inside too :D

I'm 16, just in case?

Answer 1

Boring.

Answer 2

Honey, don't ever let anyone call you ugly. Only an idiot would go and do that to a person, unless they were joking around and calling everyone ugly. Normally when people see a major flaw in themselves, it's just easier to point at someone else and throw in the insults instead of criticizing themselves. Try not to let these things affect you. If you believe this girl, then look yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you believe you are ugly. If you're comfortable with who you are and what you were born with, then you're as beautiful as you can ever get. If you're unhappy with what you see, work on what you think needs improving as long as it's a healthy decision to your life. People see your face before they see your heart. So take good care of yourself and don't let anyone get your self-esteem down so that they can raise their own. Those people are just in denial of what jerks they are. You said you had high self-esteem. Now let's keep it up there. The fact that you've had it in the first place, tells me you are beautiful from the inside out. When you're happy and confident, you're naturally beautiful. =)

Answer 3

Most likely she felt threatened by you. You seem like a nice girl, as well as confident and the fact you are pretty too, maybe she couldn't deal with it. It's no excuse, but just know it's highly unlikely she really thought you were ugly. People that make these kinds of comments are the ones with the problem, not you. Take care : )

Answer 4

It happens a lot to me. Some girls are just so mean. Girls used to always say that I couldn't do this and I couldn't do that and it really hurt me. It took be a couple of days to forget about it but it was really hard for me. Finally I just went up to the girl and just told her, right in front of her face that I didn't like it and if she does it ever again, I am going to start making fun. She stopped the next day. Just be brave but make sure that it has nothing about threatening or something like that. Just stay as simple as possible.

Answer 5

aww ((HuGs)) look there's always gonna be people who will say BS like this.I been called ugly many times and I been called pretty.Realise people will always put you down people will always have something to say.They just want to ruin your day and be mean.There's lots of people out there who say this stuff.Look this girl must be jealous or just trying to ruin everything.Who cares what she thinks.I understand for a girl being called ugly really gets to us close your eyes and focus on the nice comments people said recently or in your past.Now realise how beautiful you are and how special you are.Being called ugly is very hurtful of all the times someone said hey your fat your ugly your worthless it has got to me.But then I realise people say nice comments about me let me focus on that.Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.There always be a person who thinks your ugly like example some people think Paris Hilton is hot and I thin hell no f*ck no mercy no sh!t you get the picture.The girl is so jealous I bet 20 years from now she'll be some fat @ss hooker with a bad job.She'll be scrubbing toliets.She's not important turst me honey you'll drive in your lovely ferrari and pull up in the drive thru and you'll see her ance full face and she'll say 'want fries with that'.These people who have put me down in life I can't wait to be a musician or artist and be like 'GOOGLE ME bee-ochw'.If she goses to the same school as you show your face and ingore her.Remebre there will always be people like this.

Answer 6

Maybe you she envies your self confidence. I know a lot of girls who are very confident, and people like them. Just keep on being confident. Guys like that. Go jogging, that is a good cure for the depression you seem to be coming down with.

Answer 7

If ONE girl calling you ugly really got to you, then you do not have a high confidence level. There will always be someone who doesn't like you.. you'll have to learn to deal with it better then that.

Answer 8

Aw, sweety, don't listen to that. The girl is probably jealous or has a low self-image & by calling u a demeaning name, it made her feel better about herself--which doesn't help either her or u! Some ppl r so rude!

Answer 9

Well people that put down other people are not worth listening to, i know, it bugs you anyway. But think of it this way, obviously if she has to put u down to make herself feel better, then your not the one with the problem. If it bugs you that much you should just take a look at yourself and realize all the good things about you, you will realize they out number the bad by far!

Answer 10

Because she has picked on you as a target, citing your insecurities. Even self-confident people have weaknesses. She is probably jealous and negative. I would ignore it. If you feel attractive and most people think you are, then don't worry about it. Maybe she doesn't carry herself or see herself the same way and is intimidated by it.

Answer 11

She's probably jealous of you. Even if that's not the case, remember that ugly to some people is pretty to others, and vice versa.